leebee
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Sep 14, 1999
At counter service restaurants you will have absolutely no problem ordering from the children's menu because often only one person is at the counter ordering for the whole family so the castmembers don't know the makeup of your family.
At pretty much every table service restaurant where you order from a menu you will be able to order her meal from the children's menu. Once in a while someone will post that it wasn't allowed, usually at a non-Disney owned venue like San Angel as mentioned by a poster upthread, but this is very rare and probably depends on the server because others have had no problem at San Angel.
The places where you will have to pay for her at the adult price regardless of what she orders are those based on age. These include buffets (e.g. Tusker House, Biergarten), all you care to eat family style venues (e.g. 'Ohana, Garden Grill), dinner shows (Hoop De Doo, Spirit of Aloha Luau, Mickey's Backyard Barbecue), fixed price meals (e.g. CRT, Akershus), Dining Packages (e.g. Fantasmic!, ROL), dessert parties (e.g. MK, IllumiNations, Star Wars), special events (e.g. Dine with an Imagineer or Animal Specialist, F&W special events), and the Family Platter at Whispering Canyon Cafe. At many of these, if she doesn't like the adult or pre-plated options she can choose from the children's options or ask about kid friendly choices not on the menu, but she will still be charged the adult price.
Purple Figment's post is correct- I've bolded/highlighted the important parts. It looks like a long list, but just remember: Quick Service won't be a problem, and regular Table Service also won't be a problem (99.9% of the time). They'll let her order and eat whatever she wants. Disney restaurants do NOT want a guest to have a bad experience and then go online to report "They refused to let Susie order and eat what she wants, we are NEVER going back!"
Check out the menus posted online (here on the DIS, through Disney Dining, or at allears.net) and look at the offerings/cost at the restaurants you are planning on visiting. Using rough figures, you are going to waste about $40+ A DAY ($69 DDP minus $26 OOP $6 for a CS meal, $10 for a TS meal, two $5 snacks) if you keep your daughter on the DDP. I can't imagine paying for the dining plan in your situation.