I hope to get some insight into American culture. I have never been married, no children, etc. During my last trip I was called Mrs on multiple occasions. Sometimes this was by cast members that would not necessarily have known that I was travelling solo but even had I not been alone I think they may have called me Mrs out of habit.
While I understand that using someone’s name is often considered good service I was quite taken aback to be called Mrs. I’m Australian and when dealing with the public in my job we are always instructed to use Ms for women unless we have information that they have a different title (Mrs, Dr, etc.). My parents got divorced when I was young and my mother does not like being called Mrs. My friends are a mixture with some married some not and not all that are married have taken their husband’s name. Similarly, some do and some don’t have kids and therefore don’t always share a last name with their children. The reality is that the portion of them that go by Mrs is less than half (and we’re well into our 30’s).
I know the Australian culture is much more casual and therefore many services simply use first names. What’s the norm in the USA? Does it vary with regions and it was just because Florida is in the south that people called me Mrs?
While I understand that using someone’s name is often considered good service I was quite taken aback to be called Mrs. I’m Australian and when dealing with the public in my job we are always instructed to use Ms for women unless we have information that they have a different title (Mrs, Dr, etc.). My parents got divorced when I was young and my mother does not like being called Mrs. My friends are a mixture with some married some not and not all that are married have taken their husband’s name. Similarly, some do and some don’t have kids and therefore don’t always share a last name with their children. The reality is that the portion of them that go by Mrs is less than half (and we’re well into our 30’s).
I know the Australian culture is much more casual and therefore many services simply use first names. What’s the norm in the USA? Does it vary with regions and it was just because Florida is in the south that people called me Mrs?