DisLiss
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- May 2, 2018
Pretty much across the board they thought Ms meant divorced. Obviously this was a long time ago, but I've always thought of it. It's one thing people thinking about your marital status by your title, it's even worse people speculating your divorce status by title!
This was part of what I meant in my comment because there was definitely a time when "Ms." indicated to some that a woman was likely divorced because they reasoned that "Miss" was for women who had not yet been married and "Mrs." was for currently married women, so people assumed Ms. meant divorced. When "Ms." started being used across the board in professional situations, my own mother complained about it because she felt "it made it sound like all the women working there are divorced." And she was far from the only adult I've heard echo that sentiment.
There are cultures where young females are addressed one way and older females are addressed another, regardless of marital status.
I believe it had to do with showing respect for the older, more experienced, people in a community.
This is a nice. In different cultures I could see it leading to people being offended that someone thought they had reached that certain age, since some cultures put more importance on youthfulness than wisdom and experience gained by age; but in cultures that give great respect across the board to their older citizens, this is a nice tradition. And quite different than our one sided multi-title custom.