Well, thanks for the comments.
Our style has changed a lot over the years - however, I still have such a hard time "holding back" from park time. We used to go-go-go and then have to take a day off to recover. Nowadays, I tend to go a little slower every day, and then not really have a break day. A lot of time we spend 3-5 hours in the park in the morning, then take a long afternoon break, and head back to the parks around dinner time. We've always used rope drop and FP+ to avoid lines, but now because we keep going back, we don't sweat missing things like we used to. We usually have a few days where we pass on rope drop, and just hit the parks for a few hours mid-day as well. We ended up skipping Flights of Passage in November because I couldn't get a FP+, and we were going to try morning EMH - but said "screw it I don't want to get up that early".
That said, I still plan the hell out of a trip - it's just the pace of the plan that has slowed. I also tend to iterate the heck out of things. The last week or so, I've been going round in circles on our August trip, trying to come up with a base structure I like. The two days we have for water parks is throwing me off.