Wishing on a star
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 7, 2002
There are some real assumptions and judgments based on assumptions.
That is not going to help anything....
I will say that if my kid, at that young age, was posting on social media with hard liquor and shots...
There WOULD be some immediate and serious consequences.
I did say that there is a VERY tough line to walk at this age...
A parent being too CONTROLLING will often result in rebellion.
But I do not, in any way, equate that, or use that to justify, looking the other way when there are illegal and self-destructive behaviors going on.
I am not all about being controlling. (my posting history on these topics will show that) But, in no way would I forgo my parental obligations to look out for the best interest of my kid, and just not-discipline my early teenager, because the poor baby might rebel.
Controlling and Discipline/Consequences are two different things.
That is not going to help anything....
I will say that if my kid, at that young age, was posting on social media with hard liquor and shots...
There WOULD be some immediate and serious consequences.
I did say that there is a VERY tough line to walk at this age...
A parent being too CONTROLLING will often result in rebellion.
But I do not, in any way, equate that, or use that to justify, looking the other way when there are illegal and self-destructive behaviors going on.
I am not all about being controlling. (my posting history on these topics will show that) But, in no way would I forgo my parental obligations to look out for the best interest of my kid, and just not-discipline my early teenager, because the poor baby might rebel.
Controlling and Discipline/Consequences are two different things.
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