Hi DISFANS3,
We leave on Friday also for our big drive from Iowa to WDW.
Tipping for a 4 day cruise is as follows:
Dinning Room Server $14.75
Dinning Room Asst. Server $10.75
Dinning Room Head Server $3.75
Stateroom Host/Hostess $14.50
These amounts are for each individual person including your DD. This is a recommended amount which means you can give more if you feel the service deserve it. We usually end up giving more to all of them.
These individuals are the only ones who work for tips only but you can tip other CMs if you so disire. The only caveat is that other CMs cannot accept cash tips. You do not have to tip the counselor's but many people are doing this now. We did it on our cruise in March. I went to Wal-Mart and got gift cards and we gave them to all the counselor's in the 5-7 group. Again, it is not required, so if you can only give to certain ones then some people have given tips to the counselor's they felt spent the most time with their kids. Besides the Wal-Mart gift cards some people have posted that they give phone cards. (The biggest thing with these is make sure they are ones you can use for international calls.)
Okay, now that I have rattled on, the tips listed in the passporter are the only recommended tips, the rest is up to you. One thing to remember is the CM's listed above only work for tips. Have a great cruise.
LeiLani