Hey all, just an update! Just got back from Oahu and we did end up visiting Aulani for a few hours. It is a beautiful resort but there wasn't a ton to look at compared to, say, Wilderness Lodge or Animal Kingdom Lodge at WDW. I was kind of hoping for a larger gift shop, at least, but the two we found were pretty small.
However, we did have lunch at Ama Ama and the lobster roll was one of the highlights of my overall trip... Plus the view from the restaurant, which was spectacular! The pool area looked so nice, too. It was tough looking at that lazy river and not being able to jump in-- lol!
Our parking was validated by the restaurant so it didn't cost us anything to visit other than our lunch, and I'm glad we went because I really did love that lobster roll! We drove up the coast for a bit after visiting Aulani and there wasn't a ton to see compared to the north or even east sides of the island, so that was kind of a bust. I'm not sure I'd want to stay at Aulani due to the isolated location-- that area on the west side of the island seemed more "run-down" and less tourist friendly than anywhere else we visited. However, it was a nice morning/early afternoon excursion, and of course it's always fun to add some Disney to any trip!
Thanks again for the advice!