I too, agree with most everyone else, my childhood wasn't perfect, but it was horrible either. My mother is Italian and very controling and when dad passed away, my sister was 13 and I was 15, and from then on, mom was totally in control. Sure, there are things she did that I wish could have been different, but from my sister's perception, childhood was horrendous(sp). She is now 55 and there are times lately that I want to ask her what household did you grow up in because some of the things you tell others honestly did not happen! She's told my kids that she was beaten as a child and she will "dance" when mom passes away...who tells someone something like this!!
She seems to think mom and step-dad have lots of money because they live a comfortable life and I know that she thinks they should just "give" her money whenever she mentions she can't afford something. The joke around the family is that if she goes with us out to eat or shopping, she will only have $2.00 in her wallet.
She used to pull that one with me a lot until I told her one day I can make a stop at the ATM at her bank and she can get more $$
She also complains that mom is always "telling her what to do"...I told her to grow up, that's what a parent does. Sadly, she raised her daughter to have the same attitude about mom, money, and responsibilites.
I, on the other hand, have no major baggage from my childhood and love my mom and step-dad!!