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Debt Dumpers - 2018

An FSA is fully funded on Jan 1st of the year you opt in so you don't have to wait for funds to accumulate in order to use it. As long as the date of service is during the plan year, you can use the FSA cc card to pay it. So if Jan 5 you receive a bill for the dental copay with date of service Dec 1 of the previous year, you can't pay that with the card.

The first time I tried it, I estimated low around $800, worried I wouldn't have enough expenses and we plowed through it by May. Then our kids went into braces so that took over the full amount ($2500 per employee) next 2 years. What was great about that was that both of our kids ended up needing braces at the same time (My older ds had straight teeth until around 10th grade.) and we held off a few months until after Jan 1st so we could use the FSA card for the $1500 down payment per child. (Dh signed up at his work too so we had immediate access to $5000.) and the remaining $1000 on each card paid the monthly payments, automatically right to the card, interest free and income tax free. This was completely independent of the medical plan we chose. I don't know if one can do both FSA and HSA.

I work in a hospital that offers very low OOP insurance. Most copays are $25-45 for Blue Cross Personal Choice (no referrals) and there's only a deductible for hospitalization if we go to a hospital outside our network. They do offer an HSA plan but it's very high deductible and seems like it would be great if I was young, single, & healthy and rarely use medical insurance, otherwise I'd be paying a lot OOP. So I either have to take the high OOP plan to use an HSA and pray that some funds will be left to rollover, or go with the high coverage/low OOP plan and FSA the rest.

In the end we all have to do what works for us. :goodvibes

It seems like somewhat of a crapshoot when deciding between a high deductible HSA plan vs a low OOP FSA plan. I (clearly :blush:) never utilized our option for a FSA so assumed it built up over the course of the year like a HSA. We seriously debated switching back to the low OOP plan when they had reenrollment in November. I don’t have the option for benefits as I work less than part time, so our only options are my DH’s plans. We switched to the high deductible in 2014 when we met the out of pocket MAX of $10k in two consecutive years (2012 and 2013). Even though we had 80/20 coverage after our $1,500 family deductible, we had various hospitalizations those years so our 20% responsibility added up quickly.
The reason we considered switching back to the low OOP plan this year was 2016 started off as a very low cost year. However, between August 2016- December 2016 we spent $4,900 in medical care. Our baby was born in March 2017, so we had nearly $10k in OOP medical expenses from August 2016- March 2017. We certainly paid more in OOP expenses in 2016 than we would have if we had been on the low OOP 80/20 plan. However, we paid less with our current HSA plan in 2017 than we would have had we been on the low OOP plan. 2017 would have cost us somewhere in the neighborhood of $8k with the 80/20 plan.

I do like the fact we will never have any surprises with medical costs as everything is covered at 100% after we meet our $5k (and his employer contributes $1K over the course of the year). But, as we have already experienced, sometimes those expenses come on the heels of each other. Between the premiums (which are quite a bit lower than their standard low OOP 80/20 plan, but still a cost) and our HSA contributions, it seems like we spend sooo much on healthcare alone :sad2: We have to plan to spend the full $5k and contribute as such as meeting our full deductible has happened each year except 2014. BUT that one year of low medical care cost put us well ahead. Therefore, we did not go into any debt despite the high OOP expenses from August 2016 to March 2017.

Additionally, we had enough we were contributing each month to use our HSA to pay for our oldest DD’s first set of braces this year. The fact we have been able to stay ahead of medical care costs and we can utilize our HSA for dental and orthodontics is what led us to decide to stay with our high deductible plan. We have five children and all will likely need orthodontic care. The tax benefits in addition to the rollover benefit of the HSA is what keeps us with this plan. But, it is certainly something we seem to debate each year. I am really hoping this year will be one of HSA building vs high usage :shamrock:, but time will tell!
 
I have a high deductible HSA plan. We had a presentation at work given by our insurance company and were told that this plan is best for single people who are healthy. Basically, I was overpaying for my health insurance before switching to this plan because I don't have kids and don't have any health issues that require prescriptions, regular doctor visits, etc. I think if I had a family, I would switch to a different plan that had a lower deductible.
 
I don't know if one can do both FSA and HSA.

You can't fund both an FSA and HSA in the same plan year. HSAs are only available to people with high deductible plans. So if you have a high deductible plan, you can fund an HSA. Because the HSA money stays in the account from year to year, in a later year, you could change to a low deductible plan and fund an FSA. When you pay medical expenses during that new year, you could use funds from both your FSA and HSA for medical expenses. But you would obviously want to use the FSA funds first, since those go poof after the plan year is finished.
 
I have a high deductible HSA plan. We had a presentation at work given by our insurance company and were told that this plan is best for single people who are healthy. Basically, I was overpaying for my health insurance before switching to this plan because I don't have kids and don't have any health issues that require prescriptions, regular doctor visits, etc. I think if I had a family, I would switch to a different plan that had a lower deductible.

My DH’s employer really pushes the high deductible HSA plan by making the premiums for the lower OOP MUCH higher ($120/paycheck for the HSA vs $245/paycheck for the lower OOP). In annual premiums, that converts to $3,120 vs $6,370. With the addition of the deductibles for each plan ($5,000 vs $1,500) it becomes $8,120 vs $7,870. However, his employer contributes $1,000 to the high deductible plan only. This brings the cost down to $7,120 if you meet the full $5,000 deductible. Although these numbers will vary widely and some employers still offer attractive low OOP plans, once you crunch the numbers with my DH’s employer, the HSA is more cost effective. But, you MUST contribute to your HSA or you could quickly get into medical debt. I was nervous to switch over and sometimes seeing the medical bills makes me want to switch back, but I know it doesn’t make sense to do so.
 
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The child tax credit will begin depositing on 2/27. I just got mine filed last week and it hasn't changed from last year. I'm not sure how old your kiddo is, but if they're under 6 months at the end of the year, you really don't qualify for it. My oldest was born in November and since she didn't live with me for more tha half the year, I didn't qualify for the whole amount. :sad: However, this year my April baby was good to go, so I got the full credit for both kids.
There does seem to be a number or stipulations to qualify for the full amount. Our youngest is nine and a half months old, so I think all of our kiddos will qualify for the child tax credit. Neither my husband nor I have received our W2s nor are they available electronically yet. We owed state taxes last year which were just covered by our federal return. It would be great to get a little something back this year!

For 2017 taxes the rules have not changed....$1,000 child tax credit for each qualifying child under the age of 17; the credit is applied to reduce your tax liability. If your tax liability is less than the $1,000 then you can complete form 8812 within the same return to see if you qualify for the refundable "remaining" portion of the credit...otherwise known as "additional child tax credit". For 2018 taxes: the child tax credit was increased to $2,000 per qualifying child under 17 to be applied to your tax liability and the refundable portion is capped at $1,400.

So long as you have an SSN for the child and the child qualifies as a dependent on your return, it does not matter how long the child lived in your home...i.e...born on Dec. 31st, no problem, wait for the SSN to be issued and then file. (So many more rules come into play when considering children of divorced parents or those that were born outside of the US....then time in the home becomes important). New for 2018: the law was revised to say the SSN must have been issued before the due date of the return....it does not indicate if that is April 15th or if it extends if a valid extension form has been filed. The substantial physical presence test comes into play with children who only have an ITIN which are issued to persons born outside of the US.

There are Adjusted Gross Income (AGI) phase out limits for each filing status which cause the amount of the child tax credit and/or additional child tax credit to phase out....meaning you won't receive the full amount or possibly not qualify at all. For 2017 if filing Married Filing Joint the credit starts phasing out with an AGI of $110,000.

Hope this info. helps and your brain did not just fog over.....I deal with taxes on a daily basis at work and trust me, some days this makes my head hurt.
 
In a non-debt dumping move, I took on a new pet today... I live pretty far out in the country where our neighbors are semi-visible through the woods, but we don't really interact. My next door neighbors have their house on the market and one of my coworkers has been interested in it so DH and I went with her to the open house for it today. They had a beautiful cat in the backyard that was so sweet and was letting me pet it and carry it around. When we went back inside the realtor told us that they were actually hoping to re-home the cat when they moved. DH just loved the cat and said he wanted it so he asked me to text our neighbor and tell her we would be willing to take the cat when they moved. Well, I'm glad I did because she called me and informed me that she would love for us to take the cat since they were just planning to leave it behind when they moved and figured it would make it's way to a neighbor's house eventually when it realized they weren't there anymore. :mad::mad: People make me so mad! Why would you do that to your pet?! So I'm glad I got in touch with her so we can take this cat in before it starts going hungry. I told her to take it to a vet first because I wanted it confirmed it doesn't have feline leukemia or anything that could be passed on to our cat.

So long story short, I guess I would have ended up with a new pet either way, but I'm glad to prevent an animal from going hungry.
 
In a non-debt dumping move, I took on a new pet today... I live pretty far out in the country where our neighbors are semi-visible through the woods, but we don't really interact. My next door neighbors have their house on the market and one of my coworkers has been interested in it so DH and I went with her to the open house for it today. They had a beautiful cat in the backyard that was so sweet and was letting me pet it and carry it around. When we went back inside the realtor told us that they were actually hoping to re-home the cat when they moved. DH just loved the cat and said he wanted it so he asked me to text our neighbor and tell her we would be willing to take the cat when they moved. Well, I'm glad I did because she called me and informed me that she would love for us to take the cat since they were just planning to leave it behind when they moved and figured it would make it's way to a neighbor's house eventually when it realized they weren't there anymore. :mad::mad: People make me so mad! Why would you do that to your pet?! So I'm glad I got in touch with her so we can take this cat in before it starts going hungry. I told her to take it to a vet first because I wanted it confirmed it doesn't have feline leukemia or anything that could be passed on to our cat.

So long story short, I guess I would have ended up with a new pet either way, but I'm glad to prevent an animal from going hungry.

Wow - so glad that you are sparing that poor cat from being abandoned. It is mind-boggling how people could think about doing that to their pet.
 


In a non-debt dumping move, I took on a new pet today... I live pretty far out in the country where our neighbors are semi-visible through the woods, but we don't really interact. My next door neighbors have their house on the market and one of my coworkers has been interested in it so DH and I went with her to the open house for it today. They had a beautiful cat in the backyard that was so sweet and was letting me pet it and carry it around. When we went back inside the realtor told us that they were actually hoping to re-home the cat when they moved. DH just loved the cat and said he wanted it so he asked me to text our neighbor and tell her we would be willing to take the cat when they moved. Well, I'm glad I did because she called me and informed me that she would love for us to take the cat since they were just planning to leave it behind when they moved and figured it would make it's way to a neighbor's house eventually when it realized they weren't there anymore. :mad::mad: People make me so mad! Why would you do that to your pet?! So I'm glad I got in touch with her so we can take this cat in before it starts going hungry. I told her to take it to a vet first because I wanted it confirmed it doesn't have feline leukemia or anything that could be passed on to our cat.

So long story short, I guess I would have ended up with a new pet either way, but I'm glad to prevent an animal from going hungry.

Yay for the new pet and boo to your awful neighbors. Seems good that they are moving away.
 
Can anyone recommend a good household budget software or spreadsheet they use? There are a lot of options online, but I'd like one that's (relatively) easy to use and keep updated. I did a search and found a lot of Disers use YNAB, but it seems overly complicated and I'm not sure I'm willing to pay for it. Any advice and/or suggestions would be great! Thank you!
 
In a non-debt dumping move, I took on a new pet today... I live pretty far out in the country where our neighbors are semi-visible through the woods, but we don't really interact. My next door neighbors have their house on the market and one of my coworkers has been interested in it so DH and I went with her to the open house for it today. They had a beautiful cat in the backyard that was so sweet and was letting me pet it and carry it around. When we went back inside the realtor told us that they were actually hoping to re-home the cat when they moved. DH just loved the cat and said he wanted it so he asked me to text our neighbor and tell her we would be willing to take the cat when they moved. Well, I'm glad I did because she called me and informed me that she would love for us to take the cat since they were just planning to leave it behind when they moved and figured it would make it's way to a neighbor's house eventually when it realized they weren't there anymore. :mad::mad: People make me so mad! Why would you do that to your pet?! So I'm glad I got in touch with her so we can take this cat in before it starts going hungry. I told her to take it to a vet first because I wanted it confirmed it doesn't have feline leukemia or anything that could be passed on to our cat.

So long story short, I guess I would have ended up with a new pet either way, but I'm glad to prevent an animal from going hungry.

I can’t imagine why anyone would do that to their family pet :sad1: That kitty will have a much happier life with you!
 
Can anyone recommend a good household budget software or spreadsheet they use? There are a lot of options online, but I'd like one that's (relatively) easy to use and keep updated. I did a search and found a lot of Disers use YNAB, but it seems overly complicated and I'm not sure I'm willing to pay for it. Any advice and/or suggestions would be great! Thank you!

I use YNAB and really love it. Once you get everything set up, it is very easy to use and maintain your budget. It has made a huge difference in our in life and I really highly recommend it. There are good interactive online classes they offer for free that help you learn the software and how to use it to meet your goals.
 
You can't fund both an FSA and HSA in the same plan year. HSAs are only available to people with high deductible plans. So if you have a high deductible plan, you can fund an HSA. Because the HSA money stays in the account from year to year, in a later year, you could change to a low deductible plan and fund an FSA. When you pay medical expenses during that new year, you could use funds from both your FSA and HSA for medical expenses. But you would obviously want to use the FSA funds first, since those go poof after the plan year is finished.

Actually, I am allowed to fund a limited purpose FSA and an HSA in the same year. I’m not sure if that is the same for every employer. The FSA can be used for some vision (eg. contacts) and I *think* some dental expenses, probably because our vision and dental insurance is not good. I considered funding a small FSA in addition to my HSA but ultimately did not, because at this point I’m not even fully funding my HSA. I figured if anything, I could bump my HSA contribution up.
 
Found out today that Wal-Mart is giving all their employees either a raise to $11/hr or up to $1000 bonus. Since we make over $11 already, both my fiance and I get the bonus. He gets $400 and I get $200. This will be on the same check as our quarterly bonus, which is currently sitting at 80 cents per hour worked during that quarter (last quarter it was $1.00 and we got around $400 each). This is going to help so much when it comes time to pay for the tax/tags for the new car, which means I can put my tax return towards loans instead of saving part for that.
 
It seems like somewhat of a crapshoot when deciding between a high deductible HSA plan vs a low OOP FSA plan. I (clearly :blush:) never utilized our option for a FSA so assumed it built up over the course of the year like a HSA. We seriously debated switching back to the low OOP plan when they had reenrollment in November. I don’t have the option for benefits as I work less than part time, so our only options are my DH’s plans. We switched to the high deductible in 2014 when we met the out of pocket MAX of $10k in two consecutive years (2012 and 2013). Even though we had 80/20 coverage after our $1,500 family deductible, we had various hospitalizations those years so our 20% responsibility added up quickly.
The reason we considered switching back to the low OOP plan this year was 2016 started off as a very low cost year. However, between August 2016- December 2016 we spent $4,900 in medical care. Our baby was born in March 2017, so we had nearly $10k in OOP medical expenses from August 2016- March 2017. We certainly paid more in OOP expenses in 2016 than we would have if we had been on the low OOP 80/20 plan. However, we paid less with our current HSA plan in 2017 than we would have had we been on the low OOP plan. 2017 would have cost us somewhere in the neighborhood of $8k with the 80/20 plan.

I do like the fact we will never have any surprises with medical costs as everything is covered at 100% after we meet our $5k (and his employer contributes $1K over the course of the year). But, as we have already experienced, sometimes those expenses come on the heels of each other. Between the premiums (which are quite a bit lower than their standard low OOP 80/20 plan, but still a cost) and our HSA contributions, it seems like we spend sooo much on healthcare alone :sad2: We have to plan to spend the full $5k and contribute as such as meeting our full deductible has happened each year except 2014. BUT that one year of low medical care cost put us well ahead. Therefore, we did not go into any debt despite the high OOP expenses from August 2016 to March 2017.

Additionally, we had enough we were contributing each month to use our HSA to pay for our oldest DD’s first set of braces this year. The fact we have been able to stay ahead of medical care costs and we can utilize our HSA for dental and orthodontics is what led us to decide to stay with our high deductible plan. We have five children and all will likely need orthodontic care. The tax benefits in addition to the rollover benefit of the HSA is what keeps us with this plan. But, it is certainly something we seem to debate each year. I am really hoping this year will be one of HSA building vs high usage :shamrock:, but time will tell!


We use our medical plan so much I honestly think we'd go bankrupt with a high OOP plan. It scared me to even consider it. Our high coverage family plan is only $170 biweekly which is really quite reasonable. Also since dh can then waive his employer's insurance, he gets around $200/month back in his paycheck. Like Dentam mentioned, I do have single coworkers who love having an HSA and get a yearly physical, gyno, and maybe a sore throat every few years, and just keep watching it all rollover. Also for those people who started young and have a huge rollover and keep adding to it while they're young, can maybe switch to a low OOP plan down the road if needed. We didn't have such a thing when I was young or I probably would have considered it then. (Been at my job almost 28 yrs.)

It is encouraged because people will then use medical services a little more judiciously if they feel they're spending their own money, instead of "carelessly" spending the insurance company's money.
Considering our ages now, I just turned 50 and dh will be 60 this year, I can't take a chance being stuck with huge bills. Peace of mind is priceless.
My sister had breast cancer in 2011 at age 44 and even with having great insurance her overall OOP cost was close to $11,000 when all was said and done.

The differences in scenarios from one family to another can be quite different, so we all make the best choices we can and hope for the best. :goodvibes
 
COol score yesterday- one of the stores I collect points for had an offer on a certain type of bread/wraps that they were priced at $3.50, and you got 3500 points which is equal to $3.50! Thus making them all free (I will easily spend those points next trip) I bought the rest of the wraps on the shelf (9 packages) and 6 or 7 loaves of bread...my deep freeze is pretty full as we got our meat from inlaws farm. So awesome!
 
In a non-debt dumping move, I took on a new pet today... I live pretty far out in the country where our neighbors are semi-visible through the woods, but we don't really interact. My next door neighbors have their house on the market and one of my coworkers has been interested in it so DH and I went with her to the open house for it today. They had a beautiful cat in the backyard that was so sweet and was letting me pet it and carry it around. When we went back inside the realtor told us that they were actually hoping to re-home the cat when they moved. DH just loved the cat and said he wanted it so he asked me to text our neighbor and tell her we would be willing to take the cat when they moved. Well, I'm glad I did because she called me and informed me that she would love for us to take the cat since they were just planning to leave it behind when they moved and figured it would make it's way to a neighbor's house eventually when it realized they weren't there anymore. :mad::mad: People make me so mad! Why would you do that to your pet?! So I'm glad I got in touch with her so we can take this cat in before it starts going hungry. I told her to take it to a vet first because I wanted it confirmed it doesn't have feline leukemia or anything that could be passed on to our cat.

So long story short, I guess I would have ended up with a new pet either way, but I'm glad to prevent an animal from going hungry.

Wow, this image in my mind is heartbreaking. How can people do that to a family pet? Sheesh. It's nice to hear that this story will have a happy ending.
 
Can anyone recommend a good household budget software or spreadsheet they use? There are a lot of options online, but I'd like one that's (relatively) easy to use and keep updated. I did a search and found a lot of Disers use YNAB, but it seems overly complicated and I'm not sure I'm willing to pay for it. Any advice and/or suggestions would be great! Thank you!

I use a combo of my own Excel spreadsheet and the free Everydollar budget. On my Excel, I'm just logging and tracking true bills (cell, electricity, school tuition payments for my DD, childcare, car insurance, life insurance, rental etc.), monthly income for both DH and I, then what I deposit in savings accounts monthly by name, and what amount I pay the credit cards when due.
I do that because I like to snapshot, one that I can color code, bold, and make notes next to items, etc. It works better for me.
I have these broken down by monthly tabs for the year. I also have a vacation Excel spreadsheet similar, where I log in all amounts, what expense, and the date.

I am not logging trips to the grocery store or gas station, etc. on my Excel. I've done that in the past and didn't like it. On Everydollar I log it all, income, bills, savings, and then all the particulars in the month like the grocery store, restaurants, clothing, Walmart trips, etc. I'm sure it's double the work, but it's been working for me.
 
In a non-debt dumping move, I took on a new pet today... I live pretty far out in the country where our neighbors are semi-visible through the woods, but we don't really interact. My next door neighbors have their house on the market and one of my coworkers has been interested in it so DH and I went with her to the open house for it today. They had a beautiful cat in the backyard that was so sweet and was letting me pet it and carry it around. When we went back inside the realtor told us that they were actually hoping to re-home the cat when they moved. DH just loved the cat and said he wanted it so he asked me to text our neighbor and tell her we would be willing to take the cat when they moved. Well, I'm glad I did because she called me and informed me that she would love for us to take the cat since they were just planning to leave it behind when they moved and figured it would make it's way to a neighbor's house eventually when it realized they weren't there anymore. :mad::mad: People make me so mad! Why would you do that to your pet?! So I'm glad I got in touch with her so we can take this cat in before it starts going hungry. I told her to take it to a vet first because I wanted it confirmed it doesn't have feline leukemia or anything that could be passed on to our cat.

So long story short, I guess I would have ended up with a new pet either way, but I'm glad to prevent an animal from going hungry.
People really suck. We see a lot of abandonment/dumping in our area. I think it's because we're in a neighborhood of couple acre lots and for some reason people think that's a good place for dogs and cats. Not sure if they think they'll find a new home, or they'll have lots of rabbits to hunt... what it really means is we have a rotating cast of stray cats eating with ours, who end up as snacks for coyote that are around :( I don't understand how people are okay with themselves doing that.
Can anyone recommend a good household budget software or spreadsheet they use? There are a lot of options online, but I'd like one that's (relatively) easy to use and keep updated. I did a search and found a lot of Disers use YNAB, but it seems overly complicated and I'm not sure I'm willing to pay for it. Any advice and/or suggestions would be great! Thank you!
We really love YNAB. I wasn't sure I'd want to pay either, and DH thought it was complicated. But as Jen said, the ob my hard thing is setting it up. I will happily give them $5 a month for how easy they made it to pay off our student loans early.
 
Thanks all. Yes, I really don’t get it. We’ve always had cats and dogs and would never do this to one of ours! And these neighbors have teenaged children, so I don’t understand just telling your kids you’re leaving the cat behind me. Makes no sense to me. Shoot, even our semi-feral barn cats have access to a heated indoor room in the barn!

Hopefully we hear from her soon with an update from the vet for the all clear and can take this cute little girl in. Our big dumb golden retriever will likely try to love her to death. Our current cat is fairly timid but has lived with several other cats before, so we’ll just have to get them acclimated to each other. I’ll be sure to post a picture of her when she arrives :)
 

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