There's no doubt in my mind ADD/ADHD is a medical condition. I had the nicest boy in our scout den - could not focus, could not sit still. With his meds he was a completely different kid. I don't think more discipline, diet, would have made any difference.
But I also think there are cases where it is misdiagnosed and people are too quick to label and give kids meds. I think as a society in general we are sometimes too quick to medicate. Look at how many parents want anti-biotics for a cold? If you go to the doctor because you feel depressed, it's a lot easier to walk out with a prescription for anti-depressents than with a referral to a therapist to talk to and try to figure out what might be causing it. Sometime it's not always a chemical imbalance.
When my son was in kindergarten he was a handful. Academically he could have gone straight to 1st grade. Socially he was behind. Talking, getting out of his seat, not listening in general. The teacher (2nd year teaching) wanted him tested. Flat out said she thought he'd be fine once he got the meds he needed. He was five! I talked with his preschool teacher - she said no way. So I had him tested, chose an outside doctor not with the school. He was immature, strong-willed and had some separation anxiety. Didn't like K - big change from pre-school. No meds. Had the teacher keep a journal (which I'm sure was a huge PITA), and we did behavior modification at school and home. Kindergarten was exhausting and basically a nightmare for him, his teacher and me. By 1st grade everything was fine. He matured and outgrew everything. If I had let the teacher/school take the lead, my son would have been filled with medication he didn't need for a condition he didn't have. There's no doubt in my mind about that.
Hard to blame the teachers (and I have the utmost respect for them). Class sizes are too big, any extra time spent on discipline is time taken away from learning. Not fair to the 18 kids who aren't having trouble. Medicate the kid, problem solved quickly. There are no easy solutions. Not always a lack of discipline on the parents part either.
I'm not making any assumptions about parent/kids with ADD/ADHD and whether or not they do/don't have it. I'm just saying (from personal experience) that there can sometimes be a very thin line. Every kid is different.
But I also think there are cases where it is misdiagnosed and people are too quick to label and give kids meds. I think as a society in general we are sometimes too quick to medicate. Look at how many parents want anti-biotics for a cold? If you go to the doctor because you feel depressed, it's a lot easier to walk out with a prescription for anti-depressents than with a referral to a therapist to talk to and try to figure out what might be causing it. Sometime it's not always a chemical imbalance.
When my son was in kindergarten he was a handful. Academically he could have gone straight to 1st grade. Socially he was behind. Talking, getting out of his seat, not listening in general. The teacher (2nd year teaching) wanted him tested. Flat out said she thought he'd be fine once he got the meds he needed. He was five! I talked with his preschool teacher - she said no way. So I had him tested, chose an outside doctor not with the school. He was immature, strong-willed and had some separation anxiety. Didn't like K - big change from pre-school. No meds. Had the teacher keep a journal (which I'm sure was a huge PITA), and we did behavior modification at school and home. Kindergarten was exhausting and basically a nightmare for him, his teacher and me. By 1st grade everything was fine. He matured and outgrew everything. If I had let the teacher/school take the lead, my son would have been filled with medication he didn't need for a condition he didn't have. There's no doubt in my mind about that.
Hard to blame the teachers (and I have the utmost respect for them). Class sizes are too big, any extra time spent on discipline is time taken away from learning. Not fair to the 18 kids who aren't having trouble. Medicate the kid, problem solved quickly. There are no easy solutions. Not always a lack of discipline on the parents part either.
I'm not making any assumptions about parent/kids with ADD/ADHD and whether or not they do/don't have it. I'm just saying (from personal experience) that there can sometimes be a very thin line. Every kid is different.