Wendy31
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- Mar 5, 2005
I want to make a few things clear. First I do not want to be present when my son proposed. I have told him so. He insisted. After I told him about booking the cruise, he said he was going to propose then. It was his idea to propose on the cruise. Marriage proposal v. wedding proposal to me is the same thing. I do not even believe in love or marriages. I really didn't think people would pick apart my words.
I am single and I always vacation with my son (with plenty of trips to disney) and now that he has a girlfriend, she has been coming with us on trips. Her parents don't vacation.
I will be talking to my son and telling him everything that was posted. I am hoping that he decides to do the proposal elsewhere. Thank you everyone for giving me your insight.
Thank you for the additional information, & I'm sorry if you've felt attacked.
If your son really wants to propose on the cruise & feels like his girlfriend wouldn't have a problem w/ you being there - especially if you're not right there when he proposes but, instead, talking to the captain or sitting elsewhere in the boat - I think it could be a lovely setting for the proposal.
My one concern would be her parents... if they'd feel left out, since they wouldn't be there as well. But, again, I don't know all the dynamics & what kind of relationship she has w/ her parents, if your son has talked to her parents, etc.
EDITED TO ADD: And, please keep in mind, OP, that everyone is coming at this from their own experiences & perceptions & preferences. (And some people really feel defensive when it comes to mothers-in-law.) However, none of us know your son & his girlfriend & what kind of couple of they are.
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