We rescheduled our November 2020 trip to November 2021. While I am very disappointed by the prospect of a reduced experience (especially for $$$), I do feel the pressure of time moving forward. My kids will be 14, 10, & 5 by the time we go. It is my youngest's first trip - she loves Princesses and all things magical. To me, 4 1/2 - 5 1/2 is the best, most perfectly magical age to go for a first trip, so I don't want my little one to miss this super fun window of time. My middle child was 1 & 4 the last 2 times we went, but doesn't remember much from when he was there. I want this to be a chance for him to be young and silly enough to really embrace the magic. And my oldest will be in high school, so every year that goes by it becomes harder to pull him out of school. I wouldn't want to go on Spring Break due to crowds, and several of my family members would be really cranky in the summer heat, so we could only reschedule for November 2022, which is way beyond when I wanted to go. Plus (and most importantly), after loosing a family member, having sick family members, and a myriad of other life struggles this past year, I have been having an intense "life is short" feeling. And the future is so uncertain - no one knows when or if things will go "back to normal."
So, yes, it stinks that some of the aspects I really, really love about Disney (Fireworks, Character Interactions, Hoop De Doo, Bibbity Bobbity, great Sit Down meals) may not happen or be modified. However, I very much have that "who knows what the future may bring?" feeling. Yes, it stinks it won't be the Disney I remember, but so much stinks about this pandemic experience. We are all just doing the best we can to stay positive and live in the moment.
I am also remaining hopeful that the combination of it being the 50th Anniversary + vaccinations, means that a few good things may come back. Maybe I'm just being overly optimistic, though, because I really want & need this trip.