For any California peeps:
For a girls weekend flying into any of the San Fran area would you visit the Montery area, downtown SF, or Napa area?
We are doing a last minute trip and neither one of us like wine (yes to adult beverages, just not wine), and don't particularly enjoy the city but are looking for good food and a spa day. When I say we don't do the city I mostly mean the gross city. We live about 45 min from Portland and the last weekend trip we did to The Nines I saw a man in his city apartment window doing a a very solo activity in his window and also had to step over human poo from the tent people on the sidewalk. This was before covid and the homeless situation is insanely worse than now. All of those things make me not want to city.
But maybe the nicer places (Ritz, St. Regis, etc) in downtown San Fran aren't so much like that? I don't know if all cities are as bad as our city
?Or do we go the predictable route and just do a beach thing....decisions.