No housekeeper. Before we lived with DD/SIL, we kind-of split things. DH vacuums and cleans the bathrooms almost every week. I do all the grocery shopping and cooking, and he does the dishes/cleans the kitchen most nights. I do all the bill paying/money management, and most of the shopping that isn't groceries. I collect indoor trash, he takes it out to the barrels and puts it at the curb. He shovels the snow, but I do the porch, steps, and paths. He does the mowing and raking, and we split doing the gardens. I keep after the stuff in the house (putting stuff away- we are awful about stacking stuff on the peninsula- dusting, mopping the hardwoods, etc.) We each do our own laundry. Now that DD/SIL live with us, the grocery shopping/cooking/kitchen cleaning is shared more. If they cook, we clean, and vice versa. They also take care of their own bedrooms, laundry, bathroom, and living room.