Mackenzie Click-Mickelson
Chugging along the path of life
- Joined
- Oct 23, 2015
instead of worrying about daycare?You know instead of worrying about daycare, you can do what my family does. My wife works mornings and I work afternoons.
...you lost your point as soon as you said that.
Most of the time when people talk like that they either have been in that job long time enough where that flexibility was often earned or two they work in fields in which that can work.
To give an example from my childhood:
My dad was an insurance agent, my mom worked for an insurance company but for the corporate side. Both jobs were 9-5 style jobs with exception that sometimes my dad had to do things on the weekend because you know insurance is not a m-f type thing, no you couldn't just say "I'll work in the afternoon and you'll work in the mornings" besides that they were both full time jobs. Eventually my mom got a 2nd job (this was after my parents divorced) in retail in the evenings and weekends.
I would consider my mom's corporate job and my dad's insurance job as fairly normal jobs.
You get sympathy and understanding from people when you preface it by "I realize my situation affords me the ability to do this and others may not", you lose understanding when you act like people can do just the same as you. For many it's unrealistic for them to have such an arrangement as you do.