It's a tough decision, and while I have agonized for a long time over it, the Catholic church has made it easy for me (although it doesn't make it any less painful for me). My fiance is divorced with a daughter, so we cannot get married in a Catholic church. I cannot ask him to have an anullment for my religious beliefs, especially now where he is very opinionated about the hypocrisy that is coming to light with many Catholic Priests. He is Episcopalian (sp?) but not practicing. We are currently investigating a Disney Wedding, since we have vacationed there 14 times in the last twelve years. No matter where we get married God will be invited. Whether or not He decides to show is up to Him.