PSSST!
One of the "expenses" of the estate is paying the administrator/executor of the estate their fees for BEING the administrator/executor.
Then you didn't look to see what you had signed. There was no trust involved. SHE didn't make these estate laws up. They are in place already and have been that way for decades.
Some people on this thread act like their relative is the only one that has died and administrators/executors can simply make up any rules or laws as they please.
One of the reasons all heirs have to sign off on agreeing who WILL BE the administrator/executor, tight after the death is so that LATER, crazy stuff doesn't come up, a year later WHEN stuff is being properly dispensed per law, and the courts THEN have to get involved. They need to know right away, on the books WHO is the single person appointed & responsible for administrating/executing the estate. They want ONE person responsible on the books. Not the whole Osmond family involved. And not 9 people showing up at a bank either separately or together. (General) you don't think people have
already tried everything they can when it comes to the estate? Again, the laws have been formulated and in place for a REASON. The courts have been through all these types of situations already. They have tried to make enough estate laws to cover most of the situations they've ALREADY been through.
And whomever is the Administrator of the estate, when there is no will, doesn't get to DECIDE to divide things up evenly. That is also the law. Again, you act like your sister was being generous. NO, she was following the laws.