I have a colleague who has 4 children that are all amazing athletes. She does nothing but take them to practices, games, matches, and meets. They travel constantly, and she wouldn't have it any other way. She's counting on full college scholarships for all of them, and one may even be headed toward the Olympics. She places WAY too much emphasis on sports, in my opinion. And she belittles my children, who are not athletes, but instead musicians and scientists and artists.
Today was the icing on the cake. There was a terrible tragedy at a nearby college (my alma mater), where two students were murdered. They both played sports at the college (a Division 3 school). This colleague told us that it was an even larger tragedy *because* the students were athletes. She went on to say that athletes are more valued, more respected, more looked up to by their peers and by the community, and that their deaths are more tragic because of their amazing achievement (of being full-time college students as well as athletes).
I nearly fell off my chair. I asked her, "What if the victims were amazingly brilliant scientists, making strides in medical research? What if they were talented musicians? Or, most importantly, what if they were just plain ordinary students..........do you really have the audacity to claim that their lives wouldn't mean as much unless they played sports?!"
She didn't even seem fazed by my accusation. Instead, she said, "You just don't realize what it means to be an athlete. It's an amazing accomplishment."
I honestly think I can't be her friend anymore. She just thinks I'm anti-athlete (which I'm not! My kids' talents just don't lie there). I think she's a loon.