dennis99ss
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- Feb 6, 2001
don't think you have to "buy" into every aspect of someone's philosophy to appreciate some aspects of it. No one agrees with anyone 100% of the time, and often not 50% of the time. That doesn't mean that all of their thoughts and opinions are worthless.
I don't know if you were one of the folks who spoke out against the compass movie, but those folks didn't think it was ok to accept some aspects of something. People who are against stem cell research have a vendetta against the lukemia society because they utilize and support such research.
Can you really tell us that you are so open minded, that you don't have to believe in everything someone believes in order to find some good in them? So, if that is the case, is there anything that Obama says that is not worthless. If there is, you sure haven't mentioned it. Will you start a thread about what good things you see from him, and be as passionate about it as you are on other things.
I certainly think that is how we are born. Babies are ultimately selfish. As they grow they find that by becoming socialized within the family, and later outside of the family, by making other people happy,and meeting other's needs and expectations, they ultimately make themselves happy. They get what they want, they get positive gains, avoid punishment, rejection, find acceptance. That all starts with the EGO at the center of that universe. So, no, I don't find that a foreign concept.
If this is what you really believe, I really, honestly, feel sorry for you. What a horrible way to view your life, and to view others, i.e. thinking that their only goal in doing things is to get something for themselves. I guess doing something for others, just because you can, and they need help, is a foreign concept. I guess doing something because it is the right thing to do, irregardless of how it effects you, is a foreign concept. While I do not understand that attitude, it does explain your attitude towards others, and helping others, or lack of it. If you really believe what you write, I can understand why nobody else deserves any help whatsoever, from any source, much less the government, because, if this comment is true, you only care about yourself, and believe that, because you personally would not benefit from helping others, it is not necessary. On the flip side, you probably believe that anybody who needs help is only doing so or asking for such so they can get into the cookie jar and take your cookies, that you should be able to grab.
I do certain things because it is the right thing to do, not because I want a pat on the back. I do it because I can, and, because i can, I have an obligation to those around me. The obligation does not come from me getting anything back. It comes from doing the right thing.