MissyDisneyFan
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- Mar 17, 2019
Friendship is probably the hardest word to define... pretty much asking who has the better mustache Tom Selleck or Sam Elliott... okay, I added that question since I am a fan of both.
Friendship is different now a days from the time my parents were teens. I mean my dad still has one best friend who lives across the country who asked my dad to be the reverend at his marriage. Then there's me.
Loner. Friends = Zero...None..
I recently lost a friend who complained every day, about her image. She had low self esteem, always complaining about her boy friend who she wouldn't break up with etc. I listened, gave friendly advice...shoulder to cry on sort to speak (through text messages).
However, I had a problem... about my dog peeing everywhere except on her pee-pad like she is trained.
I was at the limit and was honestly thinking of rehoming her... even though I really didn't want to. (I kept her btw. I love her to pieces.) but I just needed someone to talk to for a change....
but what did I get in return? nothing. she gave me grief about my issue. She complained about it. She didn't want to HELP me when I needed it. She told me all her problems and I didn't say a damn thing about it, except gave her an ear to hear her problems and Friendly advice, somewhat funny advice so it would make her laugh. So after I told her my problems, she defriended me.
Another One-Way Friendship.
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I have had friends "use" me since I was little. whether it was something I had or they thought my brother was cute and only friends to get into his inner circle with friends. I am the definition of a Loner. I feel like I am not a people person any more... . Sadly.
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This is where I need you guys to help... Define Friendship Do you have a best friend whose seen you at your worst and vice versa? Who is always there through thick or thin? Who doesn't jump ship?
Define friendship.
Also sorry about the vent. I just needed to vent. I would appreciate any advice about the situation.
Friendship is different now a days from the time my parents were teens. I mean my dad still has one best friend who lives across the country who asked my dad to be the reverend at his marriage. Then there's me.
Loner. Friends = Zero...None..
I recently lost a friend who complained every day, about her image. She had low self esteem, always complaining about her boy friend who she wouldn't break up with etc. I listened, gave friendly advice...shoulder to cry on sort to speak (through text messages).
However, I had a problem... about my dog peeing everywhere except on her pee-pad like she is trained.
I was at the limit and was honestly thinking of rehoming her... even though I really didn't want to. (I kept her btw. I love her to pieces.) but I just needed someone to talk to for a change....
but what did I get in return? nothing. she gave me grief about my issue. She complained about it. She didn't want to HELP me when I needed it. She told me all her problems and I didn't say a damn thing about it, except gave her an ear to hear her problems and Friendly advice, somewhat funny advice so it would make her laugh. So after I told her my problems, she defriended me.
Another One-Way Friendship.
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I have had friends "use" me since I was little. whether it was something I had or they thought my brother was cute and only friends to get into his inner circle with friends. I am the definition of a Loner. I feel like I am not a people person any more... . Sadly.
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This is where I need you guys to help... Define Friendship Do you have a best friend whose seen you at your worst and vice versa? Who is always there through thick or thin? Who doesn't jump ship?
Define friendship.
Also sorry about the vent. I just needed to vent. I would appreciate any advice about the situation.