This reminds me of a post recently on disabilities board. Someone who had a rollator knocked on handicapped stall and told the person to hurry- she was then upset that a mom and kid(s) came out. She felt they had no right to be in the handicapped stall- started a huge debate on how can you judge if someone is handicapped or who is more handicapped. This mom and kids appeared to have no outward disabilities but others stated it could be restroom issues etc
You can’t judge if someone is handicapped all the time from physical appearance. Heart condition- might not look it. Back issues- might not be physically noticeable. Cancer not undergoing treatment- might not know. These people might not have scooters or canes etc so who gives someone the right to decide their disability is more important and they deserve to sit.
You hope someone who saw a person needing a seat who could stand would give it up- but that person who looks able bodied might not be.
Sad thing is some people do “abuse “ the system at Disney to get the
DAS etc so they don’t have to wait. You never know. Maybe if you need a seat ask CM for assistance but don’t assume everyone sitting is rude American or inconsiderate person. Recently I’ve started to have back issues where my back locks up- I look perfectly healthy in early 50s but I might need that seat - so don’t assume I’m rude if I don’t get up. If not bothering me I’d have no issue standing.
It’s also one thing for the disabled person to sit or expect someone to move but some think their entire party is entitled to displace others.