bjscheel
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- Jan 27, 2005
DD23 did a community college program and paid her rent/groceries/etc while we paid for the car/gas/insurance/phone. She graduated in May 2019 and turned 21 in September 2019. So DH said when she turned 21 she would take over the car expense so she had the summer to work on getting a full time job after college. At the time it was a paid-for car but sadly she ended up needing to buy one by December- she managed though and was even able to pay it off in 2.5 years! We continue to keep her on the health insurance till she has that as a benefit, and phone plan because it's not a big deal.
DD20 did a four year college and also paid her rent/groceries/etc and some tuition herself. It turns out she will graduate immediately before turning 21. So DH says when she turns 21 she should take over the payments for the Jeep we bought her. I'm holding the line that she gets to the end of the year before she has to do that. If her sister got 5 months from graduation to taking on car expenses, then that's the fair way, not just 21st birthday no matter when graduation is. He should be happy she completed a 4 year degree at 20 and saved him another full year of partially supporting her.
DD20 did a four year college and also paid her rent/groceries/etc and some tuition herself. It turns out she will graduate immediately before turning 21. So DH says when she turns 21 she should take over the payments for the Jeep we bought her. I'm holding the line that she gets to the end of the year before she has to do that. If her sister got 5 months from graduation to taking on car expenses, then that's the fair way, not just 21st birthday no matter when graduation is. He should be happy she completed a 4 year degree at 20 and saved him another full year of partially supporting her.