lol......Ruth, no laughing from me!! sometimes I don`t see things right in front of me despite it being obvious to others!
Here`s an example.......years ago one of my dads friends had a daughter a year younger than me, we were about 13 or 14 and at the same school, he brought her down to our house a couple of times when he was visiting my dad and a couple of times we went up to my room to play "albums"....remember them.....lol......anyway, she would often hold the albums and we were chatted about them.
Several years later my mum commented how well Kathleen was doing as a chef and how it was quite amazing considering.......I did wonder what she meant when she said considering, mum looked at me and said, well she only has one arm
You could have knocked me down with a feather!!!
I never once noticed!!! She had one full arm and her right arm was a stump from above where the elbow should be.......now that is someone who was not observant.......lol......