mickeyfan2 -
1 - You are right the rude CM's are unacceptable.
2 - I didn't want special treatment from anyone. I don't like Disney's policy and I am entitled to that opinion and I am entitled to advise Disney (and that CM since she is an employee at Guest Relations at Disney) that I don't agree with that policy. I however, will never find it acceptable for a CM to be rude with me the way that she was.
3 - Yes. I left Blue Bayou because once again a CM was extremely rude to me, and in my opinion I had already dealt with enough attitude I wasn't gonna stick around for more.
4 - How does my last statement scream "I want my money back"? That isn't what I want at all. That statement is to let them know that CM's are treating guests very rudely in a place that is supposed to be the "Happiest Place On Earth". I would write the exact same thing if I had been treated that way at WDW. It is NEVER acceptable for a CM to treat a guest the way I was treated, and the only way I know of to address that is to contact DisneyLand and let them know about what happened.
minnietoo - Yes, the rude CM's did affect my experience. I wish they hadn't. Unfortunately, that's just the way things go. It doesn't mean that I felt my vacation was ruined. It just means that in large part due to the CM's behavior I didn't feel that the money spent on that trip was worth it. The rides and experiences at the parks that we did enjoy were not enough to make up for my frustration at being treated so poorly. I agree that there are two sides to every story, and won't even try to understand what that CM's day had been like or how hard it must have been to have me trying to talk to her about a situation that was out of her control. What I can tell you is that when I walked outside of the park to Lost and Found to report the tickets lost, as I was standing there in tears, the CM's had no problem listening to my frustrations without interrupting, they were able to tell me how truly sorry they were, and they calmly explained Disney policy, which I still don't agree with but at least I could understand. They were also willing to do what they could to help me under the circumstances which was to give me a one day ticket to both parks since we had already been in the parks, and since I had a receipt showing I had park hoppers. If the initial CM in guest relations had been as patient and understanding I wouldn't have broken down into tears, and I wouldn't have had a need to complain about how badly I was treated.
Also, let me make it clear that at WDW this is NOT breaking the rules. This is their policy. So NO, others have not broken the rules for me. This is what I had been accustomed to because it is WDW's policy as long as you have a receipt or the copy of the back of the tickets. I was wrong for assuming that WDW and DL would have the same technology and policies regarding tickets, but how was I to know ahead of time to ask something like that. It never crossed my mind.
I actually don't have a problem with people disagreeing with me. There have been a few that I felt were hostile. My opinion. I will say though that it is hard to understand the tone written by someone on a message board so it may be that I am reading it one way and you are reading it another.
Amy&Dan - I wish that the original CM at Guest Relations had taken the time to explain it to me they way that you just did. To be honest, that's all it would have taken, instead of just telling me over and over again, "That's DisneyLand's policy and there's nothing I can do about it.". I was not being irrational I was just trying to understand why it was so different between the two parks and she wouldn't even attempt it.
Unfortunately, I did go to DL assuming that things generally worked in the same manner. I figured both parks would have the same technology and generally the same policies since they are owned by the same company. I couldn't have even begun to fathom how different the two parks truly were. And that is my fault. I did alot of reading on here and in the books that I purchased and did not once see anything to make me feel that the parks would be so different, but I should not have made that assumption. I will NOT be making that trip again. Not because I think that DisneyLand is such a horrible place. There just really wasn't alot there, that I felt was better than WDW, and that would warrant a return trip with an 8 hour flight, and two small children. Not when I can drive 2 hours to Orlando and experience all 4 parks, and in my opinion better Customer Service.