Where did I say they were attacked in bathrooms? Reading too much into someone's comment does not make it truth.
I guess you're looking for the gory details of their attacks.... J was attacked on her jog a couple years back at around 3 in the afternoon, M was followed into a gym locker room last year at night, O is a victim of domestic violence by her boyfriend, K was grabbed at a store by a male wearing women's clothing (bra, thong up over skinny jeans, wig) but that was someone who was already mentally ill from what she was told and behavior leading up to it. I was on the metro when a man pulled down his pants and pleasured himself in the seat across from me. So, you see, going into an isolated place with a male is not exactly comfortable for any of us.
Since I told you about the victimization of myself and a few of the women in my life, please - describe how your male friends were assaulted. Just out of curiosity, of course.