Originally posted by tracyjane
i nearly split with my partner, we are gonna try work things out .... just trying to get xmas out the way for the kids sake....
Sorry, really sorry.
Maybe it's none of my business .... but myself and Marco have been married for 28 years now.....I've got some "experience" !
Sometimes things SEEM getting worse and worse, I know it's hard when you feel your partner does not "understand" or does not give you your "space".....
We found very OFTEN that the problem was NOT so serious or big,
It just was growing up in our mind!
Maybe ....MHO..... you could just have a break( a short holiday the two of you?).....or try to talk ( where each of you is going to try and UNDERSTAND needs and thoughts of the other one).
I was always helped by the thoughts of our first times together and of all the dreams we made.
Life is not easy, I know, but I believe I CAN BUILD MY OWN HAPPINESS.......
Don't stay together because of your kids ..... stay together while building a new way of beeing TOGETHER .
Excuse me , just MHO !!!
Best wishes to you both !!!
Laura