nolatravelgirl
Mouseketeer
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- Dec 17, 2014
I think most are thinking of this as way too binary. It isn’t all or nothing. She can move into a reasonably priced apartment (maybe with a roommate to save on expenses) AND start to save for future bigger purchases in life. I think it is good that she wants to venture out on her own but if she has had no training on budgeting then she will likely fail. My question is why haven’t you been having money discussions all along for the last 15 years? Even though she had an easy road with no student loan debt, you should have been having a family meeting each semester to discuss the finances around going to school each semester. Growing up my parents would sometimes sit us down and look at things like the electric, water and gas bill. We were also sometimes put in charge at the grocery to keep a running total of the amount spent and had to make sure we were in alignment to the family budget. If she has no idea about how much basic life expenses cost then that is major parenting fail. Even when there is plenty of money flowing there is no excuse to not understanding basic budgeting and life skills.