Thanks everybody!
I think every child needs their own IEP and the IEP should be based on the child. But I also think this could be done in an inclusive environment. Our school district puts children who need a lot of extra help in a SAC (specialized academic curriculum) class. Self contained in other words. Then based on the child, they can be pulled out to attend "specials" with regular classes, like art and music, etc. Not all children are put in the SAC class, but because of my son's need for extra help, that is where he is.
But in an all inclusive environment, children are in a classroom with their peers, they are accomodated individually with what they need extra help in, plus there is a special education teacher along with the regular teacher co-teaching (which is what some of you have). This sounds wonderful to me! My son would still get the individual attention he would need for learning, but would be looked at by his peers as an equal and member of their classroom. Right now he is "that little boy who comes in our music class".
Now don't get me wrong, he is learning a lot in his SAC class. I love his teacher. He is in a study being conducted on new materials to teach reading to children with SNs (and is doing great in it). But how our district is done, if I fought for him to be in a regular classroom, he would be dumped. I was told that there are no aides anymore (unless there is a physical need) and if I fought for one they would not be able to help him with his work because they are not teachers. They would help him go to the bathroom pretty much and keep him from wandering. Also, (and this was when he was entering kindergarten) I was told that the kindergarten teachers share the classroom assistants, so there wouldn't be an assistant full time in the class. So it would have been my son, dumped in a K class with 25 or so children, with no full time assistant. That is why I did not fight for it here. He would not have learned anything. And that is what school is about. I just wish our district would change how things are done so that he can learn plus get the positives from being included in a regular classroom. Maybe we just need to move!
Sandra