Colleen27
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- Mar 31, 2007
Ah, I'm very new to this parenting game, and my husband and I are terrible tyrants, but we just don't give his small children those kind of choices. Yes, we'll have mac and cheese along with whatever else we're having, but if we're having scallops for dinner, so are the children. At 19 I know it's far too late to enforce such a policy, but seriously, what is this young lady going to do at cocktail parties, while dating, or if she had to entertain clients?
Either she'll find ways around social situations that call for eating, find things she is willing to eat, or try new things for the sake of fitting in.
Two of my three kids went through some oddly picky stages - at one point my youngest would eat sushi but not chicken nuggets, because she had issues with breading - but they were things that popped up and were outgrown and the list of problematic foods was relatively short and changed over time. We've always had a "one bite" rule but never pushed beyond that, and always offered an alternative (even if it was only a sandwich or canned soup) if I was fixing something that was a known dislike at the time. None of the three are what I'd consider picky eaters now (at 9, 16, & 20). I think usually the degree and duration of pickiness the OP describes does tend to indicate some sort of sensory issue or other underlying cause, rather than just a matter of preference, and is harder to overcome based on parenting or even individual determination.