Living below your means is not pretending. That's common sense. Not at all what I'm talking about. Pretty much griping about not having money, mooching off others, wanting everyone to feel sorry for you etc. while you actually have plenty is what I'm talking about. On the other side, pretending you have all the money in the world and being a big spender while you're about to go bankrupt. Sadly, I don't think either of those is that uncommon.Curious what type of scenario you're talking about here by mentioning "pretending." We live below our means and if someone didn't know our job titles they would assume we're just another middle to upper middle class family.