We loved our event and so did our guests.
Wedding Pavilion - 2:30pm
Cake cutting at the GF - 3:30 to 4:30 (really this went to 5)
Dinner at Narcoosee's 5:30 to 8
Wishes Cruise on the Grand 1 - 8:15 to 9:45
I thought we would have downtime between cake cutting and dinner, we really didn't. It flowed nicely that everyone had time to finish their cake and champagne, talk for a few minutes and then make their way to Narcoosee's.
We upgraded our cake to a 3 tier!!
DH insisted on it and we made it the Mickey's delight in our wedding colors. Since we knew we'd have a Lot of extra cake, we brought some store brand zip lock style containers (the boxes, not bags) in the biggest size I could find (a little smaller than a shoe box) and filled them with cake. I had 1 for each hotel room group then gave my parents one box provided by Disney and DH's family another box provided by Disney (they bring pastry boxes for each tier). We kept the last box with our top tier and ate it the rest of the week. Everyone got a LOT of cake, but they were all staying a few more days and had time for cake eating (and they all had refridgerators). We knew our guests would eat the cake - no one in my family turns down dessert - but if you're not sure they will you might end up with a lot of cake to eat. DH and I would have actually liked more cake than we ended up with - I think the top tier was smaller than what most anyone else got
ANYWAY, the other upgrades were just Dinner at Narcoossee's and the Wishes cruise on the Grand 1. I did add boutineers for my dad, his dad, best man and my nephew, plus a rose want for my niece and a coursage for my mom. In total that was like $150. I brought my MOH/sister a silk boquet because hers would have been another $125.
There are very few TINY details I would have changed, but that'll happen no matter what. I think everything we did was fantastic. It was just right to have a casual dinner with everyone and then fireworks - we didn't worry at all about talking to everyone or all the typical wedding duties since we had a small group and could easily talk to them all as the evening went on. We took the upper deck on the Grand 1 to ourselves so we had our time alone sort of.