Ditto. My wife and I don't exchange gifts. Ever. Anniversary, birthdays, Christmas, Valentine's. Nothing. We don't go out to eat often, and when we do, it's usually takeout to avoid a tip (and I pick it up vs delivery). I have an entry level model for my car, my wife's is paid off. We cut the cord, rely on streaming only. We do our own lawn, cleaning, pest control, home repairs, etc. Anything. We don't drink alcohol, and that amount of money alone for many people I know nearly covers our vacations. We drive from NH to FL when we can to avoid the $1600 or so average for flights. All these little things add up fast.
Vacations with our girls are far too important. We bought DVC when we could afford it and made sure we paid it off fast to avoid interest. We prioritize vacationing above pretty much everything else. But for us, it's worth it.