Do you agree or disagree?
I'm happily married and it doesn't feel like hard work. Sure I don't always get my way but neither does he...but work?...I don't think so. We're just happy together...what's so hard about that?
I always explain it this way:
Anything of value requires constant maintenance - a house (needs painting, grass cut, cleaning, repairs), a car ( needs oil changes, washing, repairs), same with a boat.
A marriage is no different; it requires constant maintenance or it will fall apart.
I disagree. I think if you have to work hard to be happy in your marriage then something is wrong in it.