Everyone of you are amazing!! I have always been a firm believer in the first step to fixing any problem is to admit that there is a problem. Healthy living has got to not only be a mind set for you but also something that you desire from your heart. As I have said, I have been doing this for about 6 years and I have been going up and down on the scale but the bodyfat stays about the same. (I guess that is the life of a somewhat scaled down bodybuilder wannabe.) I will have to admit that I was in my best shape ever last June went to WDW. This year, I am hoping to have more muscle and more definition to my frame. As I was growing up, I was always the "fat kid" or the "Slob" that everyone wanted to be friends with but no one ever really noticed. I can remember a time in high school when I was walking to class in the hallway I stopped and said, "Hey!" to one of the prettiest girls in school. Her reply was, "Shut up, Fatso!" You know, I have always made a point to kind of make fun of myself in order to get a laugh or a smile out of people. I will do anything to make them laugh. ( I am a misassigned comedian that isn't funny enough to make it in the comedy world.) But that one statement by that one girl has messed me up everyday since then. It is impossible for me to have the courage to even go say hey to the pretty girls at my gym. In a lot of ways, I feel like I can't get big enough or tight enough to ever shake that image. I guess all I have ever wanted (and remember, I am a guy) is to have somebody just say something like, "You're looking good." Well, I am going to say that to all of you now, "YOU ARE LOOKING GREAT!! I AM PROUD OF YOUR SUCCESS!!" But with a support group like this, I realize that it isn't always about what others think. I have to remember that I have a wife that loves me very much so why should I care about what eveyone else may think. The answer to that is obvious. It is peer pressure. I guess I have said all this to say that everyone of you are winners. You are doing something that most people in America feel like is a waste of time. They don't want to take time to think about what they are eating or if they need to go to the gym and exercise or even just walk around a track to burn off some calories. Those of you have said that you have children, you are truly an inspiration. I know as well as you do why we are going through the "pains" of exercise and working out. Very simply put, we want to see our children grow up. We want to be there with them for all of their needs and accomplishments. You men and women are the cream of the crop in my book. Let's keep it up so we can succeed not only in this goal but in life as well. Patience is a virtue. Everything worth having is worth working "hard" for.
Good luck with your goals!