So I'm pretty set that BILs are not coming on the trip this summer. Their loss. But there has been talk about maybe they could do the weekend before or after the cruise and do Kennedy or Disney, etc. We're only doing Kennedy now, no Disney or Universal. So earlier this week I asked DH if he could try to get them to pick a weekend. That was super not helpful. First DH forgets to tell me what they said, then one of them answered based on the idea that it should be the weekend before so you do all the walking then go relax on the cruise. And DHs opinion was that it should be after, because we could get off the ship Friday morning and go to Kennedy. But...
THAT WAS NOT THE POINT OF THE QUESTION.
I was trying to figure out if one weekend worked better than the other, or even a response of either being fine
So now since I'm doing the planning, I'm making the decisions, and it will be based on pricing
ETA: Oh, and to top it off, SIL had gallbladder stones removed earlier this year and they are recommending removal, and that that should be done before she would get pregnant. Sooo with nothing scheduled or planned at this time, apparently that means no one can go
I know I sound really horrible, I'm just venting. I get that stuff takes time to schedule. Medical issues are a big deal. But BIL and SIL are just the type to be like, oh no we can't make any plans ever again because of this thing... give up type personalities. And since that's not my personality, it frustrates me at times.
It's just... DH asked BIL,
if you end up being able to make it for a weekend, would one work better? And got back, "oh SIL was told she should get GB out before getting pregnant" And sounding terrible again, but sometimes I want to be like... and how does that answer my question?