Well, I just got off the phone with Rosie. What a whirlwind! I thought I knew exactly what I wanted but now I've got all these other ideas swimming around my brain!! I'm so worried about my budget and I think what Rosie and I discussed is going to come to about $500 more than I planned!
At any rate...this is the bouquet I send her to go from.
I really want the burgundy calla lilies with some greenery. She and I talked about using holiday greenery. I like the idea since it's a December wedding but I just don't know how it would look with the callas. She also mentioned crystals. I thought it sounded nice but honestly have no idea what they look like! lol. My bridesmaids will have white calla lilies with burgundy spray roses. And we'll have a unity arrangement to match. We also discussed a memorial candle. Rosie suggested a single candle adorned with a rose for each of the loved ones I have recently lost. I like the idea but I also liked the idea of having a column with my mom's Mickey ears and a small photo or candle so she has a 'place' there. My oldest son was going to lay a yellow rose (her favorite) on the column after he entered the WP. I guess I'll have to decide. Other than that (and the guys, flowergirl, and parents flowers) we discussed the aisle decorations. I really wanted something along the aisle but didn't want to spend too much. She suggested columns with fabric topped with globed candles and burgundy rose petals. They would run about $25/each and we'd put 4 on each side. It sounded good too me!
Still I fear the final cost of this...and that's not even including adding Mickey to our cake cutting!! EEK!!!! I guess I'll officially flip (or cut back) when she gives me the prices!
I have also recently asked my aunt to be a bridesmaid...she cried for like 10 minutes! I am so happy she's going to be up there with me that day. I also asked my other aunts (my mom's youngest sister) to be acting mother of the bride. She was so touched and I can't think of a better way to honor my mom! Joe asked his brother to stand up with him so now he has his brother and best friend with him! I'm so happy we decided to add to the wedding party.
After that I decided to hop on ebay and see if I could find another great deal on a BM dress. I couldnt believe my eyes when I saw another Alfred Angelo wine colored dress on ebay
AND
it was my aunts size!! What are the odds?? Its a different style but Im okay with that. I bid on it and won the dress for $16!!! Now all my BMs have to do is pay for alterations! Heres a kind of crummy photo of the dress.
Joe picked out his tuxes too. At first he chose a really nifty looking zootux. I really liked it but I guess he worried too much about it being non-traditional
like anything else is
whatever. So heres the look he chose
its nice too.
The shoes I have chosen:
And Im trying to decide between these two unity candles:
There are a lot of other cute fairy tale candles but the more I looked the harder it got to decide, lol! Now I need to choose between the more elegant candle that I will display in my home afterward or the beautiful fairy tale themed candle which captures our theme of a fairy tale wedding!
Okay
so thats it
for now!!