Also, it seems everyone around us has dslrs, either Nikon or Canon, and they all love them.
I don't know the percentage, but most people I know with DSLRs have no idea what they're doing with them.
OF course they'll say they love 'em because it's tough to dole out $800 on a camera and then admit that you don't like it, don't really know how to use it, and hate lugging it around, and your wife hates it too.
This reminds me of something that happened to me earlier this weekend.
I was at an event where this woman was carrying around her Nikon and a HUGE lens, walking all around taking pictures of this & that. She would spend most of her time outside, but sometimes she's come inside to take photos, too. I was totally intimidated by her & her huge lens.
Well, I finally got the courage to go up to talk to her. She's a news photographer, and she was carrying the 70-200mm lens, which is a very popular $2000+ lens.
She was trying to take photos of something indoors in the lower lighting area, but she kept getting frustrated at how blurry her pictures were turning out. And she didn't know how to fix it.
Turns out, she was using the "P" mode (Program mode, which is a little more advanced than regular Auto mode) the whole time. The shutter speed that her camera was choosing was WAY too slow for the situation, causing all her indoor pictures to be blurry. I could even HEAR the shutter speed clicking slooooowly.
So I had to tell her to switch her setting to Manual, I suggested a somewhat faster shutter speed (about 1/30 - 1/60), and she was totally thrilled that the indoor pictures were
finally turning out!
She's had her Nikon camera for a year. As much as she loved the camera, she admitted that she was gonna to take a Nikon class later on to learn about the camera.
What got to me was that (1) she was making money as a news photographer, and didn't know how to take photos in more complicated lighting situations, whereas I'm hanging around doing this as a hobby, and I was teaching her how to use her camera, and (2) just cuz someone's walking around with a HUGE-a** lens doesn't mean they know what they're doing.
In the end, it
is possible to have all this dSLR gear and pretend like you know what you're doing. ("you" in the general sense, not "you" specifically)
When I looked back at everything, I felt really silly being intimidated by her & her huge lens.