undertheradar
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- Sep 12, 2002
It's all about ME...........
Nothing appears to be private anymore.
Nothing appears to be private anymore.
It's all about ME...........
Nothing appears to be private anymore.
It's all about ME...........
Nothing appears to be private anymore.
Here they are more often low key. I've never heard kids complain about them, just parents. The last one dd20 got was a chipotle burrito bowl that he delivered to our house, alone.Promposals are not always public. DS tied a note to the foot of a plushie owl, and threw it at his girlfriend, like it was flying. It was just them. No photos, no spectators, no social media.
I realize they often are public, but that is not always the intent. Sometimes the intent is to do something fun for someone you care about.
Here they are more often low key. I've never heard kids complain about them, just parents. The last one dd20 got was a chipotle burrito bowl that he delivered to our house, alone.
Here's the thing, blame social media. We've always had huge bridal showers, wedding spectacles, blowout first birthday parties, elaborate wedding proposals, in this area, for at least 50 or so years. Nothing here has changed, except for gender reveals and promposals. Every 50 years, you need something new!Agreed! I am so sick to death of everything having to be a public spectacle. Is there any "rights of passage" that aren't now a competition of who can "do it bigger and better"? Between the promposals, marriage proposals, huge bridal showers, weddings spectacles, baby announcements followed up by gender reveals and the over the top baby showers, blowout first birthday parties attended by 100 people, etc., I am just so so so so over it all.
The gender reveal parties that are basically a pre baby shower get me. Do I take a gift? Do I not?
I've been to gender reveals but very low key ones. Close family and friends only. They open a box and balloons fly out or something along those lines. No giant cake, elaborate decorations, etc. They literally send out a group text "hey we had our ultrasound today. Stop by the house at 6 to find out."
In my culture we do a big 1st birthday (although this isn't always the case anymore) and a big 15th birthday for girls. It's not to show off. It's just what we've been doing since forever.
Actually, I believe these traditions came across the pond from cultures that were really into big celebrations, like Italy. Folks settled here and carried on tradition. It was very common for family to live in the same neighborhoods, and every party had a lot of people, food, and drink.It may well be that those traditions started off as showing off, or were considered to be showing off in the early years.
Promposals? Nah. . .the elementary school near our house has a kindergarten Prom!
I have seen that online. Crazy!Promposals? Nah. . .the elementary school near our house has a kindergarten Prom!
Do these seem like the most ridiculous things to anyone else?
Not a fan. Here they do it for EVERY DANCE, not just prom! In fact my DS16 went to homecoming 9th grade year and that's been it. He's not a fan of doing all that either. So you know what? The guys don't go to the dances, and then the girls don't have dates. It's too much. I can see doing something like that when you get engaged but for a random girl to go to a dance? Not happening in this house.
The picture was take at the pool area of Disneyland Hotel in Anaheim CA. We loved it there.OT - but where is your user pic from? That looks SO gorgeous, and just the kind of vacation I need