I don't think anyone is accusing you. Your tone, intended or not, is coming across as very hostile and naturally people are going to get a little upset about it. Going by your posts thus far, I would not say you have a problem with communcating a point. So you need to understand that it is quite difficult to put the perceived tone of your messages down to inability to convey your point accurately. Always remember what mums say to the kids: It's not what you say as much as how you say it.
Another thing is that this thread is generally considered a hot topic for obvious reasons and most, very quickly, end up closed. So far it has successfully carried a debate and interesting discussion over many pages and most of the posters on here are enjoying this. Sadly, over the last couple of days it has threatened to evolve from a discussion into an argument. I think I speak on behalf of the majority when I say we would like to avoid that at all costs.
I think we are having a nice debate here. Both sides of the coin are getting expressed and no one is accusing any particular person of being anything. It would be dissapointing if it were closed.
Regarding the hostility issue I agree but I do fully intend to express a dislike of those who fall into the catagory I talk about. I have no respect for those people however I have made an effort to those who are not like that not to feel hostility from me.