BadgerGirl84
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- Nov 8, 2007
Sounds like there is more to the story. Everyone was jumping all over the OP with the cup of coffee story and she has said that she would gladly get him a cup if she was getting one for herself. The issue is that her DBF is expecting her to be his maid and wait on him hand and foot. It also sounds like he is constantly ASKING for things. Yes, that would annoy me, too.
Do you work as a SAHM? Not that being a SAHM makes you a maid by any means, but I do think more of the cooking and serving is expected when one's primary job is taking care of the children and the home and the other earns a paycheck.
In what ways does DBF contribute?
I think it's a dangerous path you are headed on if you are keeping track of who did what for the other in your head. Like others have said, you both should just be nice to each other and want to do things for the other one.
Do you work as a SAHM? Not that being a SAHM makes you a maid by any means, but I do think more of the cooking and serving is expected when one's primary job is taking care of the children and the home and the other earns a paycheck.
In what ways does DBF contribute?
I think it's a dangerous path you are headed on if you are keeping track of who did what for the other in your head. Like others have said, you both should just be nice to each other and want to do things for the other one.