RamblingMad
I'm an 80s kid too.
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- Mar 29, 2019
I'm already in AZ. So maybe a split stay between AZ and Kauai.
How many winters have you spent in NC? After a few of those, you may change your mind about the heat. lolAs a born and raised floridian the nc mountains. Snowbirds tired of snow, floridians tired of heat.
It's never made any sense to me. Everybody and everything I care about is right here. Having to start over in a completely new place without the commonality of jobs and/or kids, which make finding community more natural, seems more like a punishment than a reward.No desire to move away from lifelong friends and my family.
Will be a snowbird in the winter and enjoy our cottage in the summer probably.
Exactly!It's never made any sense to me. Everybody and everything I care about is right here. Having to start over in a completely new place without the commonality of jobs and/or kids, which make finding community more natural, seems more like a punishment than a reward.
It's never made any sense to me. Everybody and everything I care about is right here. Having to start over in a completely new place without the commonality of jobs and/or kids, which make finding community more natural, seems more like a punishment than a reward.
I am not sure.
I think I like the idea of Oahu but I am not sure I would ultimately like the isolation plus my savings would not go nearly as far in retirement.
I also think I like the idea of living in the mountains or near a beach. The mountains again run into potential isolation issues I may or may not enjoy. The beach runs into the same stretching my savings issues.
Ultimately our retirement location will be most influenced by where my kids end up living.
Same here, but problem is, where can you go to escape the 4 months of winter hibernation that you don't have to hibernate 4 months in the summer?Anyplace warmer, but I do love the eastern Tennessee/Carolina region. I've lived in the snowbelt my entire life and I'm over it.
I only need my immediate family unit, For everyone else there are phones/internet,planes,trains and cars.It's never made any sense to me. Everybody and everything I care about is right here. Having to start over in a completely new place without the commonality of jobs and/or kids, which make finding community more natural, seems more like a punishment than a reward.