What not to do at Disney?

[StitchFan73]

This has probably been said but-please don't shove your child in front of mine so they can be closer to the character/ride/parade/etc, when my kid was there first and patiently waiting their turn to do whatever it is they were waiting to do.

It's not nice when you do it to me-but I will always move aside and let any kid get ahead of me-but when I am teaching my kid not to act like that, it doesn't mean I am teaching them to be someone elses' fool either

 

[KCMiller]

Tired, anxious, dehydrated warned visitors to Disney ... has a branch in The Happiest Place on Earth is not desirable. For those who want others to move in part before stopping. I seem to remember the area "stop ... Main Street, many people use the sidewalks to go up and down, then spend the sidewalk does not help. In fact, you can cut in front of someone and still be the same problem. However, if the random stop, because I see something I want a photo, or you simply want more and I had the stroller / ECV / car, I do not get mad. However, if you are standing for a further 30 seconds or more, and you were for me, that is for you not Paying attention.

OK, is it just me, or ? I'm guessing there's a tip in there somewhere . . .

KC

 

[DisneyMomm]

OK, is it just me, or ? I'm guessing there's a tip in there somewhere . . .

KC

lol ... I thought it was just me. I didn't quite get it either.

 

[Irishgrl6975]

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9) please do: bring your collapsed strollers on the bus. please DONT: be the first person to push off the bus,only to stop infront of the bus exit and set up your stroller - move a few paces ahead, or to the side and get out of the way.

I have always wondered why they don't have people collapse their strollers and place them in the luggage compartment as they get on the bus... I would think it would be easier for a parent instead of struggling to get the stroller on the bus

 

[skiingfast]

I have always wondered why they don't have people collapse their strollers and place them in the luggage compartment as they get on the bus... I would think it would be easier for a parent instead of struggling to get the stroller on the bus

The disney resort transport buses don't have compartment like the Magical Express coaches do.

Still it is a good tip to move aside if you need to stop anywhere.

 

[bdoyledimou]

OK, is it just me, or ? I'm guessing there's a tip in there somewhere . . .

KC

lol ... I thought it was just me. I didn't quite get it either.

I suspect the PP in question does not speak english, and used a web translator to communicate with those of us who do.

"A" for effort... some of the secondary languages are limited here, so its cool to see them try!

 

[DisneyMomm]

I suspect the PP in question does not speak english, and used a web translator to communicate with those of us who do.

"A" for effort... some of the secondary languages are limited here, so its cool to see them try!

That would make sense if they used a translator, my daughter uses it for French Immersion and it isn't always reliable. I agree, it's nice that they gave it a try though

 

[rarceneaux]

Having read the majority (but not all) of posts on this thread, I have learned to remind myself of a few things:

1. My kids (DD 19 and DD 13) have had wonderful times at WDW. We made it a point to ENJOY their excitement. But much of our enjoyment came from others. I try to repay by letting families and the disabled get the front row. I am 5'11" and can usually see. Small kids and people in wheelchairs usually can't if I am standing in front of them!

2. There is at least some wait for everything. People moving slowly in front of me (for whatever reason) really doesn't make my wait longer, it just gives us all some comfort room. Also, kids (and wives) need to use the "facilities" at the seemingly most inopportune times. If they need to get with their group who has moved ahead, I want to make that happen.

3. Families with young children are likely on one of their first, if not the first, trip to Disney. They can't wait for the magic and I won't try to deny them their fun.

4. CMs, like gate agents at the airport, have the toughest jobs. They are the front line with customers and the last recipient of information. CUT THEM SOME SLACK!

As a member of a Mardi Gras krewe in Louisiana, I can tell you that every rider on my float will throw to kids and the elderly WAY before throwing to the scantilly clad woman. Like Mardi Gras, Disney is FOR THE KID IN ALL OF US! Some of us have experienced (and want to continue to experience) the magic. For me, if I can spread a little "pixie dust" of my own to make someone else have just a tinier bit better day, then I have a GREAT day!

Never, EVER, underestimate the euphoria generated by GIVING a kind word, a smile or just a tiny bit of help.

I am 47 and will always be a kid at Disney because I know these joys!

Of course, I have my moments and found myself in the unenviable position of having to profusely apologize to a CM for behaving badly. The CM was very kind and understanding and forgave me (I did not raise my voice or use profanity, but was unreasonable none the less). I did not like eating that crow, and the taste will always remind me of the responsibility I have to my kids, wife, fellow travellers and Disney CMs to be decent, fair, understanding and, most importantly, a representative of the Disney Magic I carry with me every day!

 

[book_junkie]

Do not follow any touring plan until you and your partner are exhausted and your partner rebels, otherwise you may find yourself dunked into the resort pool fully clothed.

 

[free2div]

Please non smokers DO NOT come into a designatated smoking area with your kids to have lunch or rest and then complain about the smoke. You guys have the whole park and us smokers have very little space which I dont mind going to my area and understand non smokers dont want to be around it ( my daughter hates it) I go to my area and I smoke. I do not smoke anywhere else that is not allowed. Another grip I have is seeing older kids and teenagers or smaller kids taking up bus seats when there are elderly or mothers holding small children in their arms trying to stand. Please teach your kids to give up their seats and let the smaller ones sit in mom or dad's lap. One more thing..dont tell your kid they are EVIL..we heard a mother call her child this and that is wrong.

 

[ILoveMyGirls]

i'm going to be using an ECV for the first time so thanks for posting this.

I haven't read all the posts so I am probably repeating some

As a disabled person I ask that you:
Not walk in front of me and stop suddenly, my ECV doesn't stop on a dime
Understand that I can't stay on my ECV when on the bus, it will tip over on a sharp turn if I am in it - learned that the hard way
And don't sit on my ECV on the bus! I don't want you tipping over either
My ECV or wheelchair is my property (even if it is a rental). If you don't want me walking off with or moving your purse, don't touch my ECV.
Talk to me, not the person standing next to me.
Don't assume I am lazy because I am using an ECV and overweight or you see me walking fine sometimes. My disability prevents me from walking the distances required at Disney even though I walk fairly well. Trust me, if I could walk, I would. Driving an ECV in a crowd looking at people's rear ends is not my idea of a good time. It is worth it to be at Disney, but still not ideal.
Don't tell me how lucky I am to have an ECV. I have chronic pain, I don't feel lucky about that. And, no, I don't get to go the the front of the line with my ECV.

I know you are curious, but sometimes I don't want to explain my disabilities. Do you want to spend you vacation answering questions multiple times a day from strangers about your medical issues?


On the more positive side:
Thank you to all the people who make eye contact with me and smile
Thank you for everyone who politely asks if I need help instead of assuming

I traveled the country as a member of a wheelchair sports organization as a teen. No place I have been compares to Disney for accessibility.

When I went to Disney 99% of the people I met were great. I choose to ignore or politely educate the 1%.

I found that I was having so much fun at Disney, that I was fairly oblivious to what other people were doing. Focus on having fun and don't worry about anyone else. I am so excited about my next trip.

 

[Eeyore5]

i'm going to be using an ECV for the first time so thanks for posting this.

If you haven't done so already, go the the DISability board. The FAQ section has lots of info on using an ECV and other accessibility issues. I hope you have a wonderful time.

 

[gabriellyn]

Having read the majority (but not all) of posts on this thread, I have learned to remind myself of a few things:

1. My kids (DD 19 and DD 13) have had wonderful times at WDW. We made it a point to ENJOY their excitement. But much of our enjoyment came from others. I try to repay by letting families and the disabled get the front row. I am 5'11" and can usually see. Small kids and people in wheelchairs usually can't if I am standing in front of them!

2. There is at least some wait for everything. People moving slowly in front of me (for whatever reason) really doesn't make my wait longer, it just gives us all some comfort room. Also, kids (and wives) need to use the "facilities" at the seemingly most inopportune times. If they need to get with their group who has moved ahead, I want to make that happen.

3. Families with young children are likely on one of their first, if not the first, trip to Disney. They can't wait for the magic and I won't try to deny them their fun.

4. CMs, like gate agents at the airport, have the toughest jobs. They are the front line with customers and the last recipient of information. CUT THEM SOME SLACK!

As a member of a Mardi Gras krewe in Louisiana, I can tell you that every rider on my float will throw to kids and the elderly WAY before throwing to the scantilly clad woman. Like Mardi Gras, Disney is FOR THE KID IN ALL OF US! Some of us have experienced (and want to continue to experience) the magic. For me, if I can spread a little "pixie dust" of my own to make someone else have just a tinier bit better day, then I have a GREAT day!

Never, EVER, underestimate the euphoria generated by GIVING a kind word, a smile or just a tiny bit of help.

I am 47 and will always be a kid at Disney because I know these joys!

Of course, I have my moments and found myself in the unenviable position of having to profusely apologize to a CM for behaving badly. The CM was very kind and understanding and forgave me (I did not raise my voice or use profanity, but was unreasonable none the less). I did not like eating that crow, and the taste will always remind me of the responsibility I have to my kids, wife, fellow travellers and Disney CMs to be decent, fair, understanding and, most importantly, a representative of the Disney Magic I carry with me every day!

Best post EVER!

 

[RockAndRollBallerina]

Here is my biggest pet peeve these days: Cell phones are a great communication tool, carry one within your party for emergencies only. But please, you are on vacation and its not necessary to be texting, checking all the social network sites and your e-mail on your smart phone while you are in the parks, on the busses, monorails, boats, in restaurants, shops. Please save it for when you are in your hotel room. If you have a child with a cell phone who has a major need to be texting and have their cell phone with them all the time it might be a good idea before hand to have texting disabled on their phone for the duration of the trip. This will force them to call friends on the phone back at home.

 

[DisneyMomm]

Here is my biggest pet peeve these days: Cell phones are a great communication tool, carry one within your party for emergencies only. But please, you are on vacation and its not necessary to be texting, checking all the social network sites and your e-mail on your smart phone while you are in the parks, on the busses, monorails, boats, in restaurants, shops. Please save it for when you are in your hotel room. If you have a child with a cell phone who has a major need to be texting and have their cell phone with them all the time it might be a good idea before hand to have texting disabled on their phone for the duration of the trip. This will force them to call friends on the phone back at home.

I gotta be honest, other people from other families using their phones doesn't bother me in the slightest. It's really none of my business what's so ever, and doesn't interfere with my trip at all. Some people need to keep in contact with home to keep things running, whether it be for their livelyhood or some other reason that is none of my business. And as far as my own kids being on the phone (that would be the only people I would concern myself with), it wouldn't bother me if they were keeping in contact with their best friends, letting them know the fun things their doing and seeing... or even if they feel better about getting a few updates from home. If their eyes were glued to it 24/7, and it was interfering with enjoying the trip, then I would put a stop to it.

 

[snarlingcoyote]

Do not follow any touring plan until you and your partner are exhausted and your partner rebels, otherwise you may find yourself dunked into the resort pool fully clothed.

Admit it. You've been talking to my DH! He makes that same threat on a routine basis when my inner commando comes out.

 

[clanmcculloch]

Another grip I have is seeing older kids and teenagers or smaller kids taking up bus seats when there are elderly or mothers holding small children in their arms trying to stand. Please teach your kids to give up their seats and let the smaller ones sit in mom or dad's lap.

Please understand that you can't always tell what's going on in somebody's life and that there may be reasons why people don't give up their seats. If somebody has to stand on a bus but has difficulty doing so, they do have the option to wait for the next bus rather than risk standing when it's dangerous to do so. Everybody who rides the busses needs to do what they must in order to safefly use them. Yes we've given up seats for those in more need than us but looking at people of all ages you can't always tell who has a need. On our most recent trip my DH had to make sure he was sitting because of an injury. We would wait for the next bus if there was standing room only when we'd get to the front of the line. He couldn't give up his seat to somebody else and he couldn't have one of our kids sit on his lap due to the nature of his injury but he looked like a very healthy man. Please try not to judge others based on a tiny glimpse into their lives.

I think in general, courtesy to those around you is what works best in all situations.

 

[snarlingcoyote]

Here is my biggest pet peeve these days: Cell phones are a great communication tool, carry one within your party for emergencies only. But please, you are on vacation and its not necessary to be texting, checking all the social network sites and your e-mail on your smart phone while you are in the parks, on the busses, monorails, boats, in restaurants, shops. Please save it for when you are in your hotel room. If you have a child with a cell phone who has a major need to be texting and have their cell phone with them all the time it might be a good idea before hand to have texting disabled on their phone for the duration of the trip. This will force them to call friends on the phone back at home.

I'm sorry that what other people do that isn't interfering with your trip bothers you, but well. . .let me put as nicely as possible. . .it's not your business unless they're a member of your family.

I'm also going to cordially disagree with you that texting has no place while you're at Disney. I think it's a great place to text! There's no way anyone in my family would have wanted to miss a dear relation's texts from his first trip to Disney with his HS band. They were fun for all of us, and he got a big kick out of sending them. It was a memento we all enjoyed and treasured more than anything else he could have given us. In fact, I'm going to make sure I text fun things to everyone in our family while I'm at Disney this year!

Also, DH has the Undercover tourist App and I have the Touringplans App, so even if I didn't plan on texting, I'll use my phone and so will he. It's a useful tool for Disney!

 

[RockAndRollBallerina]

I gotta be honest, other people from other families using their phones doesn't bother me in the slightest. It's really none of my business what's so ever, and doesn't interfere with my trip at all. Some people need to keep in contact with home to keep things running, whether it be for their livelyhood or some other reason that is none of my business. And as far as my own kids being on the phone (that would be the only people I would concern myself with), it wouldn't bother me if they were keeping in contact with their best friends, letting them know the fun things their doing and seeing... or even if they feel better about getting a few updates from home. If their eyes were glued to it 24/7, and it was interfering with enjoying the trip, then I would put a stop to it.

The people who I was referring to are the ones, mostly in the teenage/tween crowd. Who are addicted to their phones to the point where its glued to them 24/7 and they cant drag themselves away from it for even a second. Thats mainly who the cell phone thing is directed to.

Only reason why its a big pet peeve to me now on vacations is that in 2006 we took my cousin to Disneyworld with us, she was on her cell phone 24/7, and didn't stop texting the entire trip. Needless to say it got to the point where my mom took her phone away from her the rest of the trip, she was 15 at the time. It was like she was in Disneyworld, but very much back at home at the same time. She pretty much ignored us like we were not even there because she was so absorbed into her phone and texting her friends back at home. After that trip we stopped taking her with us.

Sorry for not being more specific...

 

[LuluLovesDisney]

I'm sorry that what other people do that isn't interfering with your trip bothers you, but well. . .let me put as nicely as possible. . .it's not your business unless they're a member of your family.

I'm also going to cordially disagree with you that texting has no place while you're at Disney. I think it's a great place to text! There's no way anyone in my family would have wanted to miss a dear relation's texts from his first trip to Disney with his HS band. They were fun for all of us, and he got a big kick out of sending them. It was a memento we all enjoyed and treasured more than anything else he could have given us. In fact, I'm going to make sure I text fun things to everyone in our family while I'm at Disney this year!

Also, DH has the Undercover tourist App and I have the Touringplans App, so even if I didn't plan on texting, I'll use my phone and so will he. It's a useful tool for Disney!

I will respectfully disagree with part of this. I don't care if people text on line or in the parks, but when in a show or on a ride (esp a dark ride) the light blinking from the phone is really distracting and does prevent me from enjoying the show. It is the same as a flash. All of a sudden, I am seeing rings of light instead of the pirates, kwim?