Pea-n-Me
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- Jul 18, 2004
This.I have friends in their late 20s and 30s who want to be married. Most of the men do not want to settle down. I don't know if relationships are on decline. What I do know is that less men want to settle down in their 20s and sometimes 30s.
And why would they when they have a whole world open to them now, of people who they can have the physical/carefree part with, without the obligation of the relationship part?
Speaking about dating/hook up Apps like Tinder here. (Don't even want to post the link because it's not family friendly, but read the Vanity Fair article called "Tinder and the Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse", it's eye opening.)
A woman I know who's a therapist recommends to women who come to her with this type of problem, to try to look for men who aren't big into social media. There are still some out there, but obviously it's challenging trying to find them.
DD20s best friend is having such a hard time, it's been painful for DD to watch. This friend is in her first "relationship", but the guy is playing her for all its worth, and continuing to hook up with other women while stringing her along. All of this friend's friends are trying to help her see the reality, but she, at least right now, for whatever reason, can't let go. He treats her like garbage. It's sad.
So yes, I saw a lot of accuracy in the article, OP!