Make a list of priorities for each person in your group. Choose 3 things for each category:
1. Must Do (this includes rides, food, shopping, characters, shows, parades, etc.) -- define this as, "If we leave today without seeing/doing/meeting _____, I will be very disappointed!" (Tell everyone to keep their top 3 reasonable! No fair choosing things that are just going to be impossible/nearly impossible to pull off in one day.)
2. Would Like to Do -- define this as, "If we have the time, I would really like to see/do/try _______!"
3. Take It or Leave It -- define this as, " If we see/do this, fine. If we don't, fine."
Try to do everyone's 'Must Do's" -- that way everyone ends the day satisfied. If you can do at least 1 thing off everyone's "Would Like to Do" list, great! The "Take It or Leave It" lists are for time filler and on the fly plan changes, e.g. if a ride goes down while you are in the line and another nearby line/M&G/shop/specialty food item location/show/etc. has a short line -- go for it!