SmallWorld71
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- Feb 10, 2007
DD 14 had been having a terrible time with sleeping and was getting terrible migraines as well. At her annual check up last month, her pediatrician suggested she try melatonin. It has helped her so much. It may be worth a try.DD texted us at 5:15 AM this morning that she really missed us. I immediately asked if everything was ok. She said yes, she was just awake and thinking about us. I texted her later today to ask why she was up at 5:15 because today is a HUGE football game day at her school, and I know she wants to go. Was she just coming in? Had she just woken up? She told me she has been having trouble sleeping since she got there. Her bed is comfy enough, and the dorm settles down at night. But for some reason she can't sleep, and the lack of sleep is giving her headaches. I wonder if this is from anxiety? She has never had issue with anxiety before though. I'm at a loss about how to counsel her.
I know she LOVES her school, has met so many people and socially everything is going really well. I also know that she is worried about the academics. She was an A/B student in high school, and she feels like her school is filled with lots of really smart people. She worries about keeping up. During one lecture, the prof was talking so fast; then everyone started typing up notes, and DD missed what the teacher said. She had a mini breakdown in that class, but was able to pull herself together.
DD has been on ADD meds since 7th grade. She never needed any accommodations in middle school or high school, but the folks at her university told us during orientation that that could change in college. I got all her ADD paperwork from her pediatrician, sent it off to the Student Disabilities Dept at her school and will have DD make an appointment. Maybe that will help her with the anxiety.
I am convinced that if I were in school now, I would be diagnosed with ADD. But, they didn't do that back then. I used to miss great chunks of what was said in class. Luckily, I had lots of kind friends who let me use their notes. Perhaps your daughter will be able to get copies of the notes from her classes. I know a friend of DS who does this. At his school, there are other students who, for their on campus job, sit in classes just to take notes. These notes are then emailed to the students with disabilities who have that accommodation. His friend is 'twice special' as it is sometimes called. He is gifted and has a learning disability.