DawnM
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Oct 4, 2005
It really depends on what it is.
Death of a friend. That isn't going away quickly.
Boss yelled at work. That will change and I can get over it.
Relationship strains that aren't my fault, but are there anyway. I have a hard time with that because I can't control it.
Loss of a job. Yup, could take months or years to catch up and see any silver lining.
And we all deal with things differently. I am convinced that personality plays a part. Some people can shrug things off and some can't. Although I am finding that many who can roll with the punches easily are on medication that helps them do that.
Death of a friend. That isn't going away quickly.
Boss yelled at work. That will change and I can get over it.
Relationship strains that aren't my fault, but are there anyway. I have a hard time with that because I can't control it.
Loss of a job. Yup, could take months or years to catch up and see any silver lining.
And we all deal with things differently. I am convinced that personality plays a part. Some people can shrug things off and some can't. Although I am finding that many who can roll with the punches easily are on medication that helps them do that.