I try and tell people that comment that running a marathon seems really intimidating, that it is all built up gradually. At this point, the end goal can seem impossible, but when you look at it on a week by week basis, the miles slowly add up. ‘Oh, I have 14 miles on my schedule? That’s only one more mile than I ran last week. I can do that!’ And if/since you are using a DopeyBadger Plan, you’re longest run may not be anywhere near 26.2 miles, but you’re total miles for the week will probably be close to/the same/more than what it would be if you were using a plan that had a 20 mile long run (or at least mine are).
TL;DR - You can do it. Don’t let the end goal scare you away when it is a gradual process getting there.
Thank you.
So ... I think what's messing me up so much is not distance, but setting unrealistic goals. Like, right now I'm thinking about running a sub-1hr 10K in 2019 .... except that my PR for 10K is 1:05:36 and I haven't even gotten to the sub-40 4 miler yet. So instead of focusing on the goals that I know I can work to achieve (like marathon, which I know is just a process), I'm giving myself unrealistic goals like being able to shave a lot of time off of my paces in a short period (and I'm going to be focusing on distance more than speed during that period).
So basically, instead of focusing on the goals that I'm supposed to be working towards, in my head I'm setting unrealistic goals that I know I can't meet.
Although you may be intimidated by someone else's mileage, there may be many more people out there just as intimidated by yours.Edited to add you are a very real runner.
Thank you.
I think mileage was probably the wrong word for me to use, it's just how it manifested in my head. The issue is more that I don't dedicate an adequate percentage of my available time to running. There are people who work more hours than I do and have kids and volunteer obligations and a million other things that I don't have, but still find time to run 1-2 hours every day. Most weeks I have more rest days than run days, and even on run days, I rarely run more than an hour. If I was serious about running, I'd be willing to dedicate more time to it.
So what right do I have to call myself a runner when people who have less free time than I do spend more of that free time running?
Pizza and beer are always good. Even when they're bad they're still good.
Yes.
I did barre classes for a whole year. You Will absolutely hate the first class because it’s hard. But after a few it does get easier as you know the routine and what to expect. I found it really helped my core and my flexibility. I only stopped because money as DH cringed at 155 dollars a month and I agreed.
Hmm ... so maybe the 3 classes is a good idea, because that way I'll be forced to go back even if I hate it the first time because I paid for two more classes, so I'll have more time to learn to like it.
The price for monthly at this place is $175, I think. But I'd probably only go once a week, so I'd buy either individual classes or a multi-class package. But still, not cheap.
I also couldn’t imagine running a marathon after my very slow 3 miles today so you are def a real runner in my book.
Thank you. Until about 6 months ago, I couldn't imagine running a marathon, so ... you're not alone in that thought.
It's hard to not get caught up in other people's numbers, especially since we are all so open with sharing our accomplishments. But we are all on different paths at different places doing different things. The numbers, whether distance or pace, do not make you a real runner. The fact that you go out there and DO IT makes you a real runner. <3
Thanks.
I get what you're saying about being on different paths. But
I feel like I'm not doing enough, but I just don't have any interest in giving more and doing more. So what right do I have to consider myself a runner when I'm not willing to do what it takes to reach the next level?
(Although I don't know if you'd approve of my beer ... I might be too mainstream for some people's tastes.)
I don't know many "fake runners" who spend ~4 hours a week running. You're definitely a real runner regardless of pace, goal distance, miles per week, duration, and on and on and on. You tie up your shoe laces just like Des Linden does. You go out there and run easy on some days and hard on other days just like Des. You have good days and bad days just like Des. Sometimes you meet your goals and sometimes you don't just like Des. And just like Des, if you keep trying, then you'll attain those future goals of yours. I mean heck, I can't even run much more than 200m that Des can run 26.2 miles for.
Well ... I very rarely run 4 hours a week, so ... #fakenews. And I think you're going to love making my marathon plan, which will consist of a few hours on Sundays, and like 15 minutes on the treadmill during the week. Des may have good days and bad days, but at least she's dedicated to working hard to do better. As you've recently discovered ... I'm perfectly fine with being mediocre and I don't have any interest in exploring my full potential.
Also, I don't even drink coffee like Des ... I buy my coffee pre-ground in a store. I don't pick out the beans and roast them myself.
You could check out the McMillan Core Routine that I'm doing. It's only $5 a year with tons of videos that slowly build up. I don't have the strongest core and I've found most of the workouts attainable. It's also nice that it's slowly progressive.
And you make it sound so fun with all the side planks with leg lifts and assorted other difficult things.
Sorry guys ... this is a little depressing. I just feel like I'm not dedicated enough to running to be any good at it, but I'm too dedicated to running to explore other exercise ideas. So, as per usual, I'm stuck.