Kittyskyfish
Ohio Dis Fans!
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- Apr 3, 2009
I hope you dont think its me? others on here maybe
Oh no no no no... Not you.
I hope you dont think its me? others on here maybe
Okay so here is what I meant exactly. When we brought our girls in May of 2009. In the middle of our trip the weather changed and it became a very dry heat. It not like up here (we live in CA) where it doesn't heat up until the middle of the day and there is usually a cool breeze. It was a suffocating dry heat. I have two daughters with Asthma. So when I said girls I was thinking of these two. We had just got in line for the Story book canal ride it was longer and out in the walk way. Maddi said she needed her inhaler and was very red in the cheeks. I brought her and Cecily (my other asthma kid) to our stroller which was in the shade. I gave them their inhalers had them drink a bottled water and got them a snack. Then we went back to the line because it was still in the walk way. It was about 10 minutes later. If they had perked up and the ride had gone in to the tiny little walk way then I would have waited for my family to finish.
(I'm pretty sure that this doesn't count for the special pass. GAC?)
What I am trying to get across is that when you see me get back in to line you have no idea if I just got off another ride, brought the girls to the restroom, or went our for a puff of an in haler. It's better to think the best of people because I think for the most part people aren't doing it to be jerks.
BUT when a bunch of teenagers are abusing my kindness I will march my *** up to a CM and say something. Don't get me wrong even I have my limits!
Originally Posted by cyclenut
As far as "blocking", politely or otherwise, that is your perogative but I sure wouldn't want to spend my time a DL worrying about stuff like that. I've seen how quickly a situation like that can escalate and it just isn't worth it. It will set you back less than 30 seconds (in almost every case) if just a couple people pass you by.
1) I don't think pushing through a line is OK. That creates a greater disruption than it should, especially since many of the lines are fairly narrow. I have only allowed it for my family on occasion and then only when the line queue was readily accessible without the need to push through.Thats a little insulting dont you think? Not everyone who has the opinion that Cyclenut and anyone who thinks line jumping is okey dokey is rude, will necessarily block them or make a big deal (some yes but not all). The thing is that what they're doing isn't fair weather anything is said to them or not and the fact that I believe that it isn't fair doesn't make me a second grade hall monitor.
Disney (and most every employer) has all sorts of official policies that they don't enforce to the letter. The common position of enforcement of that official policy is generally referred to as the "unofficial" policy. You can call it whatever you want. There are examples of that policy I referred to being put into practice that are shared in this very thread. One poster even referred to a CM even suggesting a line saving technique. The point is, CMs are instructed on how to deal with a variety of situations pertaining to guests and as you might imagine they do occasionally get questions regarding line saving, line hopping and line cutting. While the official policy that you may get from WDW corporate says that this practice is not condoned, the management team inside the parks have adopted a slightly different approach for how to manage the crowds, one that reduces confrontation. I stated that policy as the "unofficial" policy. It is the difference between the publicly stated policy and the actual practice.Frankly your unofficial policy doesn't hold water. Theres no such thing as an unofficial policy. Its like saying that all of the employees at the store I work at will not talk to a customer who is on her phone weather they be in line at check out or anywhere else, that doesn't make it the stores unofficial policy it just means thats what tends to happen.
There really shouldn't be any hostility. I understand that my responses are simply continuing the thread and to some that is not advisable. However if we could all put aside the hostility and try to address this issue rationally then we could probably help shed some light on this practice for those who don't visit the parks often. If you look back through the thread you'll find that "most" people seem to feel that if it is just a couple of guests joining the rest of their family who is already in line and those people don't have to push past you to get to that spot in line, it's OK.Also if you really dont feel guilty about what most here seem to consider selfish and rude behavior and you dont care what others think about it perhaps you should stop posting? by continuing to add your two cents your fueling the fire which is not going to end the hostility toward you. I do agree with you that the hostility is unnecessary please dont read my opinion as hostile Im simply stating how I feel about this particular issue. I have not want to be insulting that detracts from my point.
I understand your views and the views of others, I just don't happen to agree with your characterization of them.The fact continues to be that everyone here seems to be ok with potty breaks and emergencies but the bottom line is still we dont think you or your children should get to have more fun for your buck then mine. No amount of arguments unofficial policies official policies etc are going to change that.
It is different if you see someone in line get out of it and then come back or if it is a long line and they catch up at the beginning of the line due to an unexpected potty break before line kind of deal. That said, there were plenty of times that we took my daughter to the bathroom anytime we saw a 20+ minute line due to her small bladder and then got in line as a family . It is not cool to be in line for 30 minutes with my own kids to have someone show up with theirs right before the ride starts.
1) I don't think pushing through a line is OK. That creates a greater disruption than it should, especially since many of the lines are fairly narrow. I have only allowed it for my family on occasion and then only when the line queue was readily accessible without the need to push through.
2) I find it interesting that those who feel my behavior regarding line saving to be rude are treating me so rudely for being open and honest. This board is about sharing tips and other information to help everyone get the most from their DL experience.
3) I don't condone or support groups larger than 2 (maybe 3 if they can all fit in one car) performing any sort of line sharing. For each pair of people you are going to have to wait no more than 30 seconds more. However, the truth of the matter is that you really aren't having to wait longer at all as the party that you happen to think may be only 2 people is really 4. Just because the next 2 join the party later just means that you were not really aware of that situation.
Disney (and most every employer) has all sorts of official policies that they don't enforce to the letter. The common position of enforcement of that official policy is generally referred to as the "unofficial" policy. You can call it whatever you want. There are examples of that policy I referred to being put into practice that are shared in this very thread. One poster even referred to a CM even suggesting a line saving technique. The point is, CMs are instructed on how to deal with a variety of situations pertaining to guests and as you might imagine they do occasionally get questions regarding line saving, line hopping and line cutting. While the official policy that you may get from WDW corporate says that this practice is not condoned, the management team inside the parks have adopted a slightly different approach for how to manage the crowds, one that reduces confrontation. I stated that policy as the "unofficial" policy. It is the difference between the publicly stated policy and the actual practice.
There really shouldn't be any hostility. I understand that my responses are simply continuing the thread and to some that is not advisable. However if we could all put aside the hostility and try to address this issue rationally then we could probably help shed some light on this practice for those who don't visit the parks often. If you look back through the thread you'll find that "most" people seem to feel that if it is just a couple of guests joining the rest of their family who is already in line and those people don't have to push past you to get to that spot in line, it's OK.
I don't find your particular posts offensive, but some of the posts on this thread are actually quite surprising.
I understand your views and the views of others, I just don't happen to agree with your characterization of them.
I am not trying to change your opinion of me or anyone else for that matter. I am merely trying to illustrate that there are varied opions on this topic and while you believe your opinion to be right, I am asking that you at least acknowledge that those who disagree with you may also be right. Please leave room for that possibility.Not once in my post did I state that you condoned line pushing as you put it. As I stated in another post and continue to think it was rude for you to let your two teenage children who are perfectly capable of waiting in two lines cut in front of others so that they could do something more fun then waiting in line. No amount of continued posting will change mine or anyone elses opinion.
Not EVERYONE disagrees with me. The point I was trying to make, albeit maybe not well, is that just because you didn't see those people in the party doesn't mean they didn't exist. They just weren't there at that time. The party size was 4 and it was always 4. When the second group of 2 arrived, the party was complete. The point about the less than 30 seconds was only to illustrate how little disruption was actually caused and yet the response from some people was pretty strong ... as though they just lost out on the golden ticket. I'm merely suggesting that we put the whole thing into perspective a bit.Second as I stated before Toy story Mania is a 4 seater two in the front and two in the back. When just the two of you were in line the two people behind you would be able to join your car by allowing your children to cut you push the line back half a car load causes others to wait for the next car. Regardless of the amount of time 30 seconds or a minute it doesn't matter your causing them to wait longer and if everyone who felt there time in the park was limited did this the lines would be chaotic which is the point EVERYONE has been trying to make to you.
I don't think it is. If you want to do the same thing I did, go right ahead. I wouldn't mind one bit.The bottom line is you and your children's park time no matter how brief is not more important then mine it is on equal terms and we should be treated equally in all cases if my party and I have to wait so do you and your party.
I am truly sorry you feel that way. I have not made any attempt to pass off some sort of fake research. My family and I are Disney fans and we know many CMs personally. It isn't difficult at all for me to ask a question like this to get an answer. My point in sharing this CM practice was to help answer questions that many posters had about how CMs might react if they were notified. Several even commented that CMs seemed to "do nothing" when approached. There is a reason for that and I've stated that reason.At this point Ive lost alot of respect for you, you claim to not care about what others think and yet you tear them down equally as much as anyone here has torn you done. You continue to press the issue of your fake unofficial policy as if were not smart enough to do our own research.
It is your opinion that what I allowed for my two teens was "cutting the line". I don't see it that way. They merely joined their party who was already in line. We see this nearly everywhere we go, even at the local restaurant where there is a party of two in front of you that is "suddenly" joined by others or at the school play where you may save seats in the auditorium for your significant other who is stuck in traffic (or catching the end of "the game" before joining you). There is a BIG difference between "cutting" (where you just jump in front of people univited by anyone) and saving someone a space.There would be no point in the company having an official policy if it was undermined by unofficial ones. There is no one any where teaching any cast member to let anyone cut. They may be told that people who have children who need to use the restroom etc may rejoin there party but not cut the line entirely.
I understand and I respectfully disagree ... and I'm not alone either ... I just happen to be the one sharing.Most people are not trying to imply that anyone here is a bad person at least that I can see everyone is trying to tell you that its unfair to cut us in line so that you or your children can do something more fun then waiting in line. Taking a child potty, administering medicine, having a bathroom emergency, or changing a diaper are all things less fun or on even ground with waiting in line. Riding another ride, shopping, or enjoying food are all things more fun then waiting in line. That is what we find unacceptable.
Furthermore Ive begun to think your a troll, and based on your response to this I may discontinue this argument.
I am not trying to change your opinion of me or anyone else for that matter. I am merely trying to illustrate that there are varied opions on this topic and while you believe your opinion to be right, I am asking that you at least acknowledge that those who disagree with you may also be right. Please leave room for that possibility.
Not EVERYONE disagrees with me. The point I was trying to make, albeit maybe not well, is that just because you didn't see those people in the party doesn't mean they didn't exist. They just weren't there at that time. The party size was 4 and it was always 4. When the second group of 2 arrived, the party was complete. The point about the less than 30 seconds was only to illustrate how little disruption was actually caused and yet the response from some people was pretty strong ... as though they just lost out on the golden ticket. I'm merely suggesting that we put the whole thing into perspective a bit.
I don't think it is. If you want to do the same thing I did, go right ahead. I wouldn't mind one bit.
I am truly sorry you feel that way. I have not made any attempt to pass off some sort of fake research. My family and I are Disney fans and we know many CMs personally. It isn't difficult at all for me to ask a question like this to get an answer. My point in sharing this CM practice was to help answer questions that many posters had about how CMs might react if they were notified. Several even commented that CMs seemed to "do nothing" when approached. There is a reason for that and I've stated that reason.
It is your opinion that what I allowed for my two teens was "cutting the line". I don't see it that way. They merely joined their party who was already in line. We see this nearly everywhere we go, even at the local restaurant where there is a party of two in front of you that is "suddenly" joined by others or at the school play where you may save seats in the auditorium for your significant other who is stuck in traffic (or catching the end of "the game" before joining you). There is a BIG difference between "cutting" (where you just jump in front of people univited by anyone) and saving someone a space.
I understand and I respectfully disagree ... and I'm not alone either ... I just happen to be the one sharing.
I'm sorry you feel that way. I am not a troll, although I am a new member. I happened on this thread after I joined. I read through two pages of posts before I shared my thoughts. I am honest and forthright about them.
I also see a difference between "line cutting" (where people just insert themselves into the line where no one was saving their place) and "line saving" (where other people in their party was already in line).
I'm surpirsed line saving is so looked down upon, when the exact same thing is so widely accepted at Disneyland when it comes to one person saving space for a group before shows like Fasntasmic or parades. Why doesn't that create the same complaints about "how the rest of their party should have to wait hours for the show just like everyone else, instead of being off riding rides, or getting a bite to eat"?
To the person who said they block the isle and do not let people go past them in a line (without at all knowing the reason they are joining or re-joining their group someone further in the line)...do you act the same way when you are a couple rows back at Fantasmic, and then just before the show starts a few people get in front of you to join the one person in their party who saved their spot in the front row?
I'm surpirsed line saving is so looked down upon, when the exact same thing is so widely accepted at Disneyland when it comes to one person saving space for a group before shows like Fasntasmic or parades. Why doesn't that create the same complaints about "how the rest of their party should have to wait hours for the show just like everyone else, instead of being off riding rides, or getting a bite to eat"?
To the person who said they block the isle and do not let people go past them in a line (without at all knowing the reason they are joining or re-joining their group someone further in the line)...do you act the same way when you are a couple rows back at Fantasmic, and then just before the show starts a few people get in front of you to join the one person in their party who saved their spot in the front row?
As for people saving spots for a show, it is NOT against Disney official policy, it does not delay the start of the show for me and by nature (ie blanket on the ground) does not misrepresent the amount of people being saved for. So I am perfectly fine with it. It is neither rude or selfish...
You say I should be open minded to the option that cutting in line is a perfectly reasonable option for those who have children who prefer having fun to standing in line. Which no Im not I wont be open minded to your opinion because I dont think that cutting or what ever you'd like to call it is ever an option. If i was going to be open minded to your opinion then shouldnt you be open to the ideas of those of us on this side of the fence who are offended and bothered when this sort of thing takes place? Thats hypocritical.
People from my side have told you a hundred different ways why what your saying is wrong and you come back at us with the same answers none of which hold any water IMHO. So I'm discontinuing arguing with you because clearly we've reached an impasse, I'm not going to condone what your doing and your not going to see why others feel your being rude to them. So further discussion is a moot point.
Why? What do you care? If they had been in line from the beginning, you'd still have just as long to wait than you would if they "cut" in near the end.
I've never practiced this type of line saving because I've never had the need to, but I don't see a problem with it. If people are just plain getting into line ahead of you and didn't have anyone in their group holding their place, then that is a problem. But if part of their group was in line, and some had to step out of line (for whatever reason...it's none of my business) or if they couldn't wait in line (again, none of my business why), then how does it impact you (unless their getting back into line was done rudely)?
I understand your point I can see how little difference might be seen there but IMHO I think that if I came to find a seat for fantasmik and I sat with ten people who had blankets and sweaters etc all around them I would assume more people were going to be sitting there I woldnt assume it was only one person like I would in line. I would then make my seating decision based on that and when more people joined it wouldnt stop the show from starting at the designated time.
For some reason you feel your groups's time is more important than everyone else...
if we all did it the lines would be chaos with people coming through the line all the time. It is also against Disney's official policy which I have seen enforced by CM's...
True, but I was also referring to one of the main arguements being made here that this is just plain "wrong" or "unfair" because they had to wait the entire time while others only waited part of the time. See previous arguements such as "you think your group's time is more important than mine?".