OMG! Singled out!
And I think we've had this conversation before....
My travelling has been done over a 25 year period, which is why I've finally had to step up to celebrating the 30th birthday (anniversary) at the last birthday. Couldn't keep saying I was celebrating my 21st birthday (anniversary) any more...
The last 10 years, I've been really lucky. DH's job is based in Silicon Valley but we choose to live here.
He travels at least twice to four times a year and DS and I have been making the most of the opportunity. Plus until the last 18 months, the company policy was to travel Qantas. So, the Frequent Flyer points piled up and after about 4 or 5 trips, there was enough points for a free tix.
We've always tried to combine a bit of business with pleasure; but not too often because we don't want to abuse the work tolerance, for DH. We've added on 3 or 4 weeks to his work trips twice or three times in the last 10 years and used San Francisco as a launching pad for seeing another quadrant of the US. It's worked pretty well for us.
Othertimes, DH has gone for work; and DS and I have just gone to San Francisco to just hang out there, which is why I know the city and the Silicon Valley area pretty well. Afterall, when you don't have accommodation and car hire to worry about, one ticket paid for work, another by FF and only one ticket to spring for, it is a completely different equation. Wouldn't you capitalise on the situation too?
The last 12 months was an anomaly where we planned a family vacay at the World in May 2010. We didn't even have a work trip to plan around....
And then we came back and found out that DH had to go to Coronado Springs Resort for a 3 day conference, plus 2 days at SF. I couldn't work out babysitting for DS fast enough for that Oct 2010 trip!
And DH had to go back to San Francisco for work in Jan 2011. It was school holidays and I needed to take the time off to look after DS anyway. We just decided to add 5 days to the start of the work trip and ended up with 10 days in California.
I'd go back to Europe in a heartbeat...but when the US opportunities come our way, we never say no....unless finances are such that we decide not to.
Yes, I'm lucky...but I'm also a good saver. We're a pretty boring family in real life and stay home a lot. We don't have many other vices; other than travelling (except I seem to have picked up photography last year)...and we also like cheap eats.
I also change money into US$ every 2 or 3 months depending on the exchange rate because we know that DH could use it on a trip sometime. Invariable I end up with spending money already saved up that we don't need to find at the last minute, which helps with the decision making question of to go or not to go.