OK... the Thanksgiving question. People want to think that if he spent the holiday with his wife rather than his girlfriend, that says he's really not committed to getting divorced or to the girlfriend. HOWEVER... this guy is and always will be a father. He's also been part of the extended family for HOW many years? I would give him points for spending the holiday with his family, his KIDS, even if he doesn't want to be married to their mother. (For all we know, maybe he and his kids spent the holiday with HIS side of the family, and he's not ready to bring a girlfriend into that equation yet, being as he is still legally married and all.)